2006-10-12 05:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by 1josh2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your girlfriend lies to you then she is not worthy of you in the first place. If you really think she is cheating then there definitely is a problem with the relationship. If you want to catch her, then get a private detective or do the detecting yourself. Follow her whatever it takes. My own intuition was the first step of letting me know that my exhusband of 15 years was cheating on me. I could 'feel it in my gut'. Cant explain it but I felt it.
2006-10-12 05:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by rutchy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your girlfriend is telling you lies, then you should probably break up with her. Not necessarily because she lies to you, but pretty much because you don't trust her.
If you outright ask her if she is lying to you or cheating on you and she says no, can you believe what she is saying to you, or do you still have doubts? If you can believe her, then trust that she is telling you the truth and work at trusting her. If you doubt her answer, then you need to get out of the relationship and find someone that you can trust.
Good Luck.
2006-10-12 05:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by SmileyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she's lying or cheating then it may not matter if she is. The fact that you think she is lying & cheating is the issue. It might be wise to find a new girlfriend. In the right relationship, you'll never worry about lying and cheating. This is called trust. Best of luck!
2006-10-12 05:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by comicaldad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them straight out, there's no point in being secretive over it. Cos at the end of the day it's always gonna be pondering around in your mind, not saying that you don't trust your partner. But you need to be reassured & you have to just ask it.
She should be understanding & reply, if she asks you why you asked her. Then you say that you are getting a impression from her that she is being secretive about things, and that you feel a lil uncomfortable. it's a lil daunting on yourself, but you have to do it. I've known people who have been there & done that, so the sooner the better
2006-10-12 05:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking her is worthless, because she may lie. Your best bet is to to become a best friend to her best friend. Then after a week of good relations with her best friend look at her and say "I know (your girlfriends name) is cheating on me, she told me last night, and said its been happening for over a month, has it been longer, thats all i want to know?" This way the best friend doesn't feel like she is selling out your gf because 'you already know'. Haha, it truely is genious, I have done it twice before. Best friends are always eager to tell.
2006-10-12 05:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that she lies to you perhaps you should think about the relationship and if it is worth the pains.
2006-10-12 05:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by norsmen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋