Female here.
People say that by the time i hit 30 I will be depressed.
2006-10-12 05:09:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry about it,,,
2006-10-12 05:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will only be depressed if you don't make the most of your life. I was 36 before I found someone truly worthwhile, and so happy I waited around...there was a point to all of my patience, and it is sheer and utter happiness. Then again, I never sat around worrying about it. I went out and had tons of fun whenever I got the chance--so much fin, in fact, that my married friends were ofter jealous of ME! You can travel anywhere you want, accept invitations to any social event you choose, and are basically free to follow the wind. That was fun, and my new life is wonderful, too...just be content with the present--you don't know what the future will hold.
2006-10-12 05:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it actually becomes harder to find someone as you get older, not because you're less attractive, or there's no where to meet someone - I think it's because you tolerate less. You've been single, independent, focusing on growing yourself, and when you meet people, after evaluating what you like and dislike, you're less willing to accept crap.
For me, when I was younger, I just wanted to be with someone so bad, I was willing to accept a lot of crap from guys. Now, although I'd like to be with someone (27) and hope to before I'm 30, I'm also pretty content with myself, and not willing to tolerate what I used to.
Bottom line - don't be worried. I'm sure you're a great person. As long as you know that, someone else will see it too.
30 is NOT old!!!
2006-10-12 05:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by cb4556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, honey!!! I have a friend that was wondering the same thing. You will be okay. Love will find you. It is better to be 30 and single & happy, than to be 29 and rushing into something you may soon regret.
2006-10-12 05:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, try not to worry. Worrying will not solve your problem. Try being happy on your own, do you really need a boyfriend to find fulfillment? Being single has lots of advantages, enjoy them while you can.
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2006-10-12 05:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't be...the problem is probably that you are looking anyway, and most likely not in the right places, like bars. i say just focus on being the best version of yourself possible so that even if the right guy never does come along, you'll be happy just being you. there are plenty of good guys out there though - you know what they say...when you quit looking for a relationship, it finds you.
2006-10-12 05:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by faerydahlia3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , lots of people don't find their , Mr or Mi's right till later.
Maybe your not really looking. Try doing different things.
Take up a new hobby, you will learn something new and have fun.
Who knows you might meet him there. Always have to be willing
to try new things.
2006-10-12 05:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it just enjoy life and it will find its way to you. You wouldn't want to waist time on something that isn't real. Don't jump into something that doesn't put you on cloud nine & make you feel special. Love will find the way just don't close the door to it.
2006-10-12 05:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by tygernside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is someone out there for everyone. No matter what age you are. Time is no factor in love. People in thier 80s are finding people. So do not worry you will find someone.
2006-10-12 05:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by cuppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,don't feel bad- I can't find a girlfriend,myself. But you know what? I'd love it if we could solve each other's problems. You can reach me at im1friend@yahoo.com or call me direct- Kevin B. 918 335 2955.
2006-10-12 05:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I'm in the same boat. You have plenty of time. Wasting your time on the wrong person would be the wrong thing to do. Keep & open mind and keep going......it will happen one day!
2006-10-12 05:13:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋