my soyfriend cheated on me on sept.30 while i was out of town.even though i was really hurt i do love him and want to work things out with him.this kind of thing has never happened to me before and i want to know if its to soon to
bring him back to my house and if yuo think maybe he will do it again because i forgave him
2006-10-12 05:08:58 · 6 answers · asked by ailene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He cheated on you while you went out of town? What did he do have sex with another person? If he did don't take him back because I'm pretty sure you gave him some before you left and even if you didn't it still didn't give him the right to go out and cheat and have sex with someone else. He could have waited or beat his meat or something. I mean it's up to you whether or not you take him b/c I can't decide for you I can only give you my opinion. Ya feel me? It depends on what he did and his reason eve nthough there is no reason b/c if you love someone you wouldn't cheat on them. This has happened to me before and I took mine back a month later and he cheated on me again 6 months later. So I should have waited longer b/c if they cheat the first time and u let them off the hook they'll do it again. Show that dude that u ain't taking no ****!
2006-10-12 05:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cheek~meek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he will do it again. You are basically saying "its ok" when you take him back. But on the flip side I know how it is to love someone so much that you don't want to see them with anyone else so you try to make it work. What I have learned is to not give so much of myself to someone. Do what you got to do and put your self first. But he will for sure do it again. Maybe not now but he will.
2006-10-12 05:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u love a man that disrespects u? do u like abuse? u like being crapped on? u can forgive but move on. he is a LOSER and doesnt respect u at all. he doesnt love u or even care abt u regardless of what he says.
u have to ask urself y u love a loser.. bad self esteem
2006-10-12 05:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kelli T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. He got away with it once and he won't stop it . Get rid of him there are plenty of great guys out there that won't cheat.
2006-10-12 05:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by jaide1108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too soon to do anything with his butt so just wait and make earn that trust back or he will think he can walk all over u.
2006-10-12 05:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will do it again ---- Why are you the one trying to get him back, shouldn't he be trying to save your relationship? Trying to prove, he'll never do it again and that he has changed?
2006-10-12 05:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋