I am female and was in long term relationship with a women which ended a year ago. I know I want to be with a man now and had always been with men previously. Will this put men off getting into a relationship with me? And how will a potential long term partner react when I tell him? And at what point should I tell him?
2006-10-12 04:56:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it would me,,,i think its sick
2006-10-12 05:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is secure about your relationship then learning about your past with another woman shouldn't bother him. Be honest with him as soon as you can, but there is no need to bring up your past at the beginning of a new relationship. However, you must not mislead him; if he asks you about past relationships you can always say that you don't want to tell him everything and that some things should remain private for a while. Generally, a man who is a good person will not be put off by anything in your past. Just don't mislead him into believing that he knows everything about you. Give him reason to trust you and he will. If he doesn't, he's not worth worrying about. Good luck.
2006-10-12 05:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Travbot the Observer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man in question. If it's a problem for him, would you want to be with him anyway?
Most men have this thing for lesbianism - something I've never really understood or got on board with myself. It's kind of a male bravado thing, but to be honest I don't think most men really know much more about it than what they've seen in highly contrived porn scenes.
Bottom line is, we've all got a past, and although it shapes who we are now, it really need not have any bearing on the future. Most people's new partners are going to have slept with someone... does it matter who it was? (unless it was a blood relation, I guess!)
2006-10-12 05:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by lickintonight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my opinion, the feeling experienced from a same sex relationship cannot be easily wished away so men definitely will be repulsed to an extent but you never know, there are also odd types out there and people with genuine likes that could let it go and take you for you!
2006-10-12 05:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Eljose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend i'm think to respond to the question, in protection of obese people, yet for the Wiz, of course you in no way had intercourse with a 9 month pregnant woman. And sure it extremely is finished! Do I definitely have any witnesses? huge abdomen, toddler kicking and all! And believe me the different individual isn't narrow jim themsleves, so it extremely is finished. The yuck element could come from the mothers and dads, mine became my grandmother and for my daughter it became me. Sorry i'm unable to permit you comprehend all that she advised me, yet she became precise. i admire you, did not like the assumption-approximately her in a sexual dating with an older guy before she became 22 and out of school. She is 30 now and dates an older guy, 10 years her senior and that i appreciate it and can settle for it extra by way of fact she is older and has experienced existence, marriage, and intercourse for this reason she not "eco-friendly" or "moist in the back of the ears" so which you will possibly communicate, and can preserve all that being in a dating like this brings. Age adjustments with adult men and youthful girls people over 30 I determine is her selection. I hate to declare it yet a guy that ought to date a youthful woman on the edge of his very own daughter's, age notably in the age team 21-31, I definitely have a topic with that. Too on the edge of convenience in case you comprehend what I propose, sorry I had to place that obtainable. i've got considered it too many cases. that's the real international we live in. Your 50, your daughter is 25 and your female buddy is 26? Hmmm?
2016-10-16 02:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating a girl who was in serious relationships with women. She never had to tell me. She was very open about it and it was probably one of the first things I knew about her. It took me a while when we first started hanging out to realize we weren't just play flirting, so I wouldn't say it put me off, just made me think twice as hard as I usually would. As for telling him, I'd say do so when you are comfortable doing so, but do it as early as you can. No man should have a problem with it, but honesty is important in any realtionship with potential.
2006-10-12 05:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him once you're no longer just dating but in a relationship (no longer than a month). Men will always get jealous about previous relationships male or female. In my opinion, you're safer with a man who doesn't think that it means he'll get a peek at some girl on girl.
Good luck
2006-10-12 05:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there should be no problem you are entitled to feel however you want about whomever you want. If somebody jusdges you over something that you did in your life,thats not a person you want to be in a relationship with. By the way are you available now? LOL just kidding
2006-10-12 04:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it would be an issue, but if it does turn out to be, then the guy wasn't worth your time anyway!
Society is changing, people are a lot more accepting of sexual orientation these days!
2006-10-12 05:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes most men .... don't listen to thoese men who ooohh that hot... they stupid
if you have a man and he love he'll be ok maybe not at first but he'll get over it.
tell him up front like after it starts to look long term.
hope this helps :}
2006-10-12 05:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, most men don't mind it at all.
2006-10-12 05:22:36 · answer #11 · answered by belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋