She is from Alabama, I am from London, we met in South Korea and I am currently in the Philippines! A woman's perspective would be much appreciated.
2006-10-12 04:56:06 · 28 answers · asked by Jonathan B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm in a long-distance relationship too (although not neaaaarly as distanced as yours) and I like to send my boyfriend postcards (random, silly ones, or even a simple photo of me ^_^) with a lyric from a song we love, quote from a movie, inside jokes, etc. etc.
Also, when I had a boyfriend who lived on the Atlantic coast (I'm on the Pacific coast), I bought a jar and filled it with tiny sea shells, a little sand and sea water and sent it to him. He did the same for me, so we each had a little of each other's oceans.
You could dry some local flora (particularly any well-fragranced herbs) and make a potpurri bushel or jar that smells like what you're smelling every day. If the smell isn't very strong or pleasant, find some essential oils to sprinkle on the flowers.
Forget the typical flowers and candy crap - it's all about the personal touch. If she's sick, send her a fruit basket or use walgreens.com or any other online drug store and send her meds and stuff she can use!
Wear a t-shirt you looooove to sleep for a few nights (make sure you're clean when you wear it ^_^). Spray it with your cologne and send it to her with your smell still on it.
Write short messages on coasters, napkins, tickets, whatever - to show her that you're thinking of her all the time, even at random places.
I could think of a billion little things.... good luck!
2006-10-12 06:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by stockingsnholdups 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Staying in communication often is always a good idea. Letters letters letters poetry. She will keep them. Flowers are never a bad idea. Women feel special when your gift says i know you
does she like to write send her a journal is she an exercise junkey send her a new work out top she will think of you when ever she wears it. Have her favorite treat sent to her . Its not about the expense with us its how much thought you put into it.
Making a cd s always a nice touch mix some songs that you and her have heard over the times you spent together or just a comp of some stuff you think she would like.Hope this helps and you loving her enough to ask this question says allot ob out what kind of great husband you will be best wishes and prayers for you both
2006-10-12 05:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by dancfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being so far apart takes alot of work , setting your alarm clock so you can easily remember the best times to call , sending flowers and candy's across the universe ! all of these are easy, but a tad costly . the best thing to do is to try to find out what she likes , radio station , foods , places ! I'm sure any radio DJ would help you out with a dedication and or song request girls love that stuff
maybe you can set up something with her favorite food delivery service and surprise her with dinner and dessert on a Monday , girls don't expect that sort of thing , send love letters in your own hand writing and always talk about the future . just be creative and thank goodness for the Internet it will be your best friend for just about everything . OH Yeah a romantic island get away with in the next few months would be nice it gets pretty cold in Alabama . good luck sweetness i wish you all the luck in the world .
2006-10-12 05:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send her a card. Even one that is a "just thinking of you" and you could write your own special message inside. Fairly inexpensive way to let her know she is on your mind. The other thing (depending on how romantic you are) is to write her love letters. Maybe I've read too many romance novels, but sometimes it is the little things like those that will give her wonderful memories. And if things progress to marriage, just think of the great stories (and letters), you and her can share with your grandchildren. Good luck! I am in a long distance relationship, but mine is only about 120-130 miles. I can't imagine having to do something of your nature. Wish you the best!!!
2006-10-12 04:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by pdiluigi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send her the normal emails, phone calls, send a card by mail just little thoughtful reminders that you care. Then surprise her with a box filled with things that she might like, perfume, silk lingerie, candles, maybe some items that are rare in the Philippines. If you both have a webcam you can have a romantic evening together. If you don't have a webcam I would suggest buying two and sending her one. Best of luck to you both. It's really just the little things that get a girls heart pumping.
2006-10-12 05:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by frankyzgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow what a story!
How about sending her something simple like an unexpected note in the post telling her how much you miss her? That would be such a lovely surprise.
When I was with my ex he had to go to Maryland, USA for 4 months while I was stuck here in Essex (yey) and he sent me a card with a little poem he'd wrote in it and I thought it was the most romantic thing ever.
Or make a surprise meeting whenever you can. Send her an invitation asking her to be wherever you've planned for a certain time and tell her the sort of occasion and treat it like a mystery date sort of thing!
Good luck .x.
2006-10-12 05:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Email her everyday, several times a day if you can. Even if it is only to tell her that you love her.
Send flowers. FTD is a wonderful thing.
Send her cards. Singing telegrams can also brighten her day.
Many high end candy, sweets and food companies will deliver treats just about anywhere.
Call her on the phone as often as possible. Buy two cell phones,send one to her. Pack it with minutes and make sure it has a camera option so you get to see one another as often as possible. Get a web cam.
Write her poems...even badly written ones are romantic... I speak from experience.
Being apart is hard, Work to build communication skills and you will in essence be building your relationship. This time away will only make the relationship stronger if you are both really trying to communicate.
Best wishes to you both.
2006-10-12 05:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have a single rose delivered to her at work and then a dozen more to home the same day. You can make the arrangements online.
You could also have something a little more original delivered, like a gift basket with a stuffed animal, her favorite romantice movie (or one that has meaing to the two of you), her favorite snack, coffee,( teas, hot cocoa, whatever she likes), some popcorn ect... be creative and try to send something that will remind her of your first date or other important day in your relationship.
2006-10-12 15:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy-of-Twins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend (he was in London, I was in North Carolina, US) he always made sure to write me romantic emails. The one that touched me the most was written about how I impacted his life. The fact that he could be so open in his feelings made me feel extremely special.
On my part, I made him a scrap book from scratch. I filled it with original poems, home made coupons for things like 3 hours of uninterrupted conversation, romantic rendevous, kisses, hugs and intimate moments. On both our parts we kept the relationship alive and well by sharing things as if we were next door to each other instead of thousands of miles apart.
It is also good to create stories together like "what are we going to do the next time we see each other". All these things helped my boyfriend and I create a wonderfully blissful relationship which I still cherish.
2006-10-12 05:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by Nigerian Beauty 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Send her real letters, not just emails. Real letters are much more personal, and she'll enjoy seeing that you spent the time to sit down and actually write.
You can also send her a package every now and then. Maybe include some things that are rare, that she couldn't get in Alabama.
Maybe you can go online and find the website of a spa in her town, and buy her a gift certificate. Have it sent to her with a special message from you, inviting her to have a relaxing day at the spa on you.
Check out www.kodakeasysharegallery.com. They have really neat products that you can personalize with your own pictures (magnets, pillowcases, cards, collages, t-shirts, stuffed bears with pictures on their shirts, calendars, etc.). It would be neat to send her something with your picture on it, or with a picture of you and her on it.
2006-10-12 05:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋