Would you hire a twenty year old male as your Wedding Planner?

Question

He advertise in the local newspaper
You call and he seems very professional
So you set up an appointment to meet and discuss wedding plans
When you see him you ask "How old are?"
"20" he reply with a charming smile
You stay for his presentation and it's great! So good you're in awe.
Do you hire him or hire the woman with more experience?

Answer 1

You're not giving enough info here. His presentation was great, but how many weddings can a 20 year old have planned? If he's cheaper than the really experienced woman, but you speak with his vendors and they say that they like working with him, then give him a shot! You never know. But remember, this is the only wedding day you'll have (HOPEFULLY!), so this person better be someone you like spending time on the phone with, etc... because you'll be doing it A LOT.

Good luck...part of me wonders if YOU are the 20 year old and are just looking to see if you might have a shot at becoming a wedding planner. Am I wrong?

Answer 2

As with any wedding planner, I would ask for references, as well as to see some of the work that he has done. As a wedding DJ, I have worked with many wedding planners and the younger people often have better ideas and are more willing to work outside the box. Alot of the time, older wedding planners are more set in the traditional wedding. Always investigate who you are hiring before you put in the money. Make sure that they are going to do what you want and not try to make you do what they think is best. They should be willing to make it your day...no matter how old they are.

Answer 3

From what I definitely have considered maximum wedding ceremony planners make a portfolio of the paintings they have finished or can/will do this expresses this sort of planner they are. i don't think of sexual orientation will rely as long as you click with the couple by way of fact whilst it includes hiring a marriage planner i think of that as long as you're on the comparable lever and have a solid time with the couple then not the rest will rely. I additionally would not in basic terms at this trip say your orientation there could be some jealous husbands-to-be that isn't like their destiny better halves spending lots time with a immediately guy (in basic terms a warning for my area)

Answer 4

Have you seen his work? That is very important. Make sure you check his references, viewed his work before making that decision. This something that should be done for every wedding planner you meet with. Judge him based upon his work and referenced not his age. Being that he is young might be an asset rather that a liability. He could be more creative and dedicated to your wedding being that he hasn't been in the business that long. Good luck to you. If you need other referals I could suggest some other wedding planners in California - Los Angeles area. If you need a makeup artist I know a great one too. Best of luck to you.

Answer 5

No. Sorry, but at that age, he hasn't really had a whole lot of work experience, not to mention life experience. I'd want a person (man or woman) who'd put in some years with caterers, florists, venues, DJ's, bakers, had dealt with a lot of mishaps, knew how to handle anything, and who had more or less "seen it all". The person would need a long list of references, and a solid relationship with local vendors, too.
A 20 year old just hasn't been out in the world long enough to have that kind of experience. He really should consider working as an assistant for 5-7 years before doing his own thing.
Perhaps for a simple party, but not my wedding.

Answer 6

Well, does he have any records of other weddings he has done?
If you like his past work then why not! Just because he is young doesn't mean he not good. In all probability it means he has exceptional talent. Its unlikely that a 20 year old male would connect himself in a local newspaper with something as rugged and manly as wedding planning unless is very good. Who knows you maybe in a few years time you'll see him on Opera planning weddings for the stars and you'll be able to say "I had the same wedding planner as Tom cruise and that new young girl he married........no not her the younger one" (",)

Answer 7

Sometimes men can really surprise you - but I am a safe person so I would still choose the woman. Knowing that she has more experience and that she is a woman. I would have to stick with her after all you only get your wedding once. But the man on the other hand really could surprise you. If you want to go with cheaper then you could sit down and come up with lots of questions to ask and see if he can answer them without much hesitation.

Answer 8

If his presentation was so good, than he obviously has the excitement, time, and resources. The more experienced women probably has amazing ideas, but if she's more experienced, chances are she'll have other weddings on her plate and may not have all the time in world to give to yours. I think the key ingredient with the young guy is his excitement for the profession. Have you EVER been disappointed with someone who was excited about their job and WANTED to give %110 on the job? I say go for the younger guy and best wishes!

Answer 9

As a person entering the same field, I would say if the presentation left you in awe, then he at least deserves a chance! And it might be a wonderful experience for the both of you. Don't let the fact that he's a male determine his potential!!

Answer 10

It would all come down to price with me. If he doesn't have the experience, he better not have as high of a price. But if he really stresses the fresh approaches the can offer, then I'll give him a chance.

Neither age nor gender would affect me in the least.