I caught my boyfriend cheating, not with one woman, but with three. Ladies and guys, please give me ideas on how to get back at him, I am a scorned woman, please help!!
2006-10-12 04:20:13 · 27 answers · asked by SHESHE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Revenge is a complicated thing. It feels good at first, but then the regret sets in. And then you don't feel any better then the person you took out revenge on. It depends on who you are too. Revenge is sweet to some because they just don't feel regret. So if this is you then go for it. Find one of his freinds and cheat back with them.
2006-10-12 04:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by His Dudeness 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You may be wondering how to get your ex back when he has a girlfriend if you're still crazy about him. Is there anything more difficult than seeing the man you still love with another woman? It's emotional torture and for many women it's something they have to deal with on a daily basis. Wanting him back after the break up is one thing but when he's already moved on and is dating someone new, it becomes a much more challenging situation. There is a right way and a wrong way to handle a situation like this if your goal is to get back together with him. Understanding the steps you need to take and what you have to avoid at all costs, will allow you to have the best chance of becoming the woman he loves again.
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2015-03-18 16:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing any of these things, you have to stop right now. Because if you're asking, "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back," all of the above mistakes will not do it, so stop doing these things immediately!
So then, what should I be doing to get my ex boyfriend back, you ask?
Here are some helpful tips for you to follow that actually work.
You have to stop whatever you've been doing. It obviously didn't work, and if you were making the mistakes I mentioned above, then you really need to stop and take a step back. It's time for a fresh approach.
You have to break complete contact with him, at least for a while. If you really like him, I know this is going to be difficult, but you have to do it. You can't communicate with him in any way. So, no texting, no IM'ing, no anything. You have to go "cold turkey" in a sense.
You can consider this "you time" where you work on yourself. You have to work on improving your life instead of focusing your attention on your failed relationship. This will be probably be a difficult time for you, and it's going to feel almost impossible to not call him, but you'll need to stay disciplined so that you don't revert back to your old ways.
Just remember that what you were doing wasn't working. You're trying something new.
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2015-06-10 14:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell each 3 what is going on, in depth, so they will be on guard (its a moral obligation)...then BOW OUT. No more communication with anyone anymore. Stop pushing **** uphill...its pointless.
Read the book...He's Just Not That Into You....and maybe you'll wise up next time. Maybe if you can read the signs that a man is really into you or not, you wont get sidetracked about your own feelings anymore. Lust isnt love and there are clear signs about that too you know.
2006-10-12 04:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to stick it to him is to one, leave him, then two move on to someone better. You could try all these childish tricks, but you end up looking like some psycho then. Find yourself a good guy, one who makes you happy and won't cheat on you. He will realize he screwed up when he sees you happily on the arm of another man! That's pay back enough. You'd be amazed at the jealousy that can stir in your ex!
2006-10-12 04:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by Social_D 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should go out with a few other guys and let them know your ex boyfriends short comings which I am sure he has many now that you think about it. Or you could get ahold of those women and tell them to make sure they get checked due to your boyfriends STD's that he never tells any one about
2006-10-12 04:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is getting really edgy. I probably shouldn't tell anyone to do this, but I don't think anyone deserves to be cheated on (it's happened to me too and it sucks). Start dating/flirting/getting very physical with his best friend. If you are really angry and he has a brother of legal age, try seducing his brother. There is nothing more insulting to most men than that.
2006-10-12 04:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-02-13 03:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming you had the sense to break up with that guy just move on and let it go life is to short to get back at everyone that hurts us find a new faithful man and move on, however if you are still with him using bengay as lube for a hand job is very unpleasant LOL just make sure you wash your hands before you go to the bathroom or your feel the pain too
2006-10-12 04:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by rachelhaggerty82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you want to keep him or not.
I JUST THOUGHT **** HIS WORST ENEMY !! Thats a good one !!! : )
If you don't want to keep him, i would milk him for all he's worth, in other words nice dinners, don't wait for him during sex lol, get what YOU want out the relationship and look round for the next boyfriend you would like before leaving him.
If you want to keep him, which you shouldn't, then .. well i have no answers for this one THE MAN CHEATED!!! xxx
2006-10-12 04:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tamara 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋