My boyfriend says he dont have no sexual fantasies but i dont beleive him i want to surprize him sometime but need to no what guys fantsize about please help me?
Im willing to do anything for him i thought every guys fantasy was two gals at same time thats why i done it, and ive dressed up for him to.
2006-10-12 03:37:40 · 21 answers · asked by tracey a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you are any guys fantasy, you've done the 2 girl thing, you've dressed up what more can the guy want, he's probably been fantasizing about someone like you his whole life.
why don't you indulge your fantasies, if you want a hunky fire man, just set the house on fire, a police officer, report a burglary or commit a crime.
why not do the 2 guy thing if you've already done the 2 girl thing or better still 3 girls,...... no 4 girls, now we're talking.
Why not do the sex in public or sex with strangers,...... have you ever considered dogging?
2006-10-12 03:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by jonny Atlantis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow luv, you look like you are on the right track!
First of all he is lying if he says he has no sexual fantasies... Well maybe he's not concious of them, but everyone has them...
Second, why would you feel the need to please him so badly? Are you doubting the fact you are enough for him as is? Or does he make you feel like you're just not enough for him?
Finally, there's a whole world of possibilities to spice up your sex life. Role play and dressing up are a part of it, so you go girl! Oral sex is also a favorite for most men, and maybe try a variation on the theme... Mix in a HJ and dirty talk to your fellatio and watch him go gaga! There's also other types of sex you can try; have you given some thought about trying an*l sex? Alot of guys are into that too.
I have tons more suggestions but they are too explicit for these Yahoo boards so you'll have to use your imagination!
PS: I'll ask my hubby to answer this question for you as he is literally an ocean of sexual fantasies!
2006-10-12 11:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question because my g/f asks me to tell her my fantasies and I struggle as well.
Man have lots of fantasies, for me they often involve my g/f taking control, dressing up as a nurse and tying me to the bed, licking me all over and teasing me. Outdoor sex is also a good one, or doing it in a risky place. I would love for my g/f to meet me somewhere with a coat on, and only panties and a bra underneath, take me into a public toilet, suck me off and then demand that I f*** her as hard as I can. Also using toys is a good change which you both might enjoy.
If i think of anything else I will let you know. Good luck.
2006-10-12 10:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem here? If your guy says he doesn't have any fantasies and he's satisfied why are you worried? Maybe you should start on some of your fantasies if he doesn't have any.
2006-10-12 17:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Peri 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mainstream porn would suggest most male fantasies fall into the following: FFM threesomes, anal sex, ejaculation on various spots on the female body (breasts, face, buttocks), power games in either direction (one partner tied up for example), being in control, having the woman be in control, stimulation of their penis by the breasts or feet, and of course dressed up partner - with standard lingerie/stockings/heels being very popular, 'young' looks (i.e. skirt, socks, pigtails) being popular, and the odd nurse/teacher/policewoman/doctor type fantasy being thrown in as well.
Not all guys like all of these things, but it seems a lot of people like each of the above.
2006-10-12 10:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all guys like that, a lil bit of strip tease to warm him up. Cuff him to the bed and take advantage of him lol
2006-10-12 10:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, girl, you won't go far wrong with that as long you you don't get jealous when he is having fun with your mate, i wish oh i wish i could find someone that loved me to the extent you love him, i would not be to bothered about a 3 way, but just for someone to be that in love with me would put me on cloud 9 for life. i loved my ex wife like that, i would do anything to put a smile on her face, but she found someone else. never mind,
2006-10-12 14:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by staff, 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
one of my fantasies is two girls at once but I also like to try havin sex under a waterfall or on a beach. some fantasies are not as easy to do as others.
2006-10-12 10:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by slvrdragon2001 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
not all guys have the fantacy of 2 girls, some like myself just have the fantacy of making love with my woman in different and exciting places.
2006-10-12 10:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
every man want 2 women including myself
2006-10-12 10:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by ga44male 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋