If you love someone & even that person loves you a lot & one day that person leaves you & goes away & says that he doesnt love you anymore. Will it hurt a lot?
2006-10-12 03:25:15 · 28 answers · asked by nutan_nutty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was shattered when this happened to me. He stopped loving me because he found someone more attractive and then gradually, I not only hated that woman but also started hating him. I was broken, could not study, could not eat well, hated to see myself in the mirror and started losing faith in God. Its been 11 years now and I still hate him. I think whatever happened, happened for good. Though I am now happily married, I still like to know his whereabouts and try and find out things about him from our common friends, but dont wish his well being. If you truly loved him then it hurts even after 11 years of breaking.
2006-10-12 03:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a relationship ends, it's confusing and it Hurts, but, when a relationship ends and you didn't want it to, that's a whole other story. You can start thinking and acting all kinds of crazy when this happens.
The challenge now that will help decide if you're going to take something POSITIVE away from your experiences... or if you're going to let the negative and fearful aspects of them start to create negative "chatter" and beliefs in your mind.
Now shift your intense focus on all the things that were WRONG, you take all the qualities, problems and shortcomings you come up with about the man who broke up with you... and you decide that these are THE things that were missing and were to blame for the break-up and failure of the relationship.
And, so what do you do?
You're so hurt and intent on not having the same thing happen to you ever again that you promise to never be with a guy like this one again...
Now turn your attention and consciousness in finding a guy who loves you and u hopefully dont repeat the past. I'm so absolutely sure you're going to get back into the place where love and connection come into your love life and "flow" . Good Luck>
2006-10-13 03:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely unless your thankful they are gone. Love is a funny thing separated from hate by a very thin line. Once you have been deceived by some one saying they love you and walking away you will understand.
First come the feeling of rejection. Then you ask yourself " what did I do to cause him to leave", a few days latter the question becomes why,why why and you realize you have been taken advantage of. Then the anger starts and you have a choice either to hate him or forget him. But, you will have a hard time trusting anyone for a long time.
YES IT HURTS !!
2006-10-12 10:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and everyone gets hurt sometime.That helps develop your character and lets you know how strong you are. You will recover, too. And you'll move on and find another love someday when you are over the first crush.
2006-10-12 10:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that always hurts but you go on woth your life and think of their loss for not wanting to be with you but its all good in time you will have the best for yourself and spouse if thats how you want it tend to yourself not others love yourself listen to your heart if love live in you for the un lover then seek them but from a distance and watch closely to the words you say then you will know your future!!
2006-10-12 10:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by lovinbatman2437 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes love hurts.
2006-10-12 10:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone always gets hurt when there is a break up.
Time does heal
2006-10-12 10:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by usaf.primebeef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More then likely! Unless of course you stop loving that person first.
2006-10-12 10:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by His Dudeness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it will. That moment will break my heart and shatter me completely.
And the moment after that one tight slap will land up on the face of that one who caused this and played with my feelings!
2006-10-12 14:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by MintyMint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts. but you could get over it. you have to try. it takes time though..
you will find a new romance. be patient..
meanwhile, try going out with friends.. meet new people..
meet new guys.. have fun.. do something different and that doesn't remind you of your ex!
2006-10-12 10:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lil_po 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋