well my ex broke up with me yesterday but he told me he still cared for me and then told me not to call him anymore!!!!! i am getting mixed signals, can anyone help??????????????
2006-10-12 03:19:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly believe if he told you that he still cares for you sweetie then yes, he really meant it. He is probably going through some issues within himself that he needs to sort out and broke things off with you as to not hurt you in the long run. So I mean don't take it personal if he asked you not to call him anymore sounds like he's really having a difficult time with something and the best thing you can do is to give him his space and eventually his problem will be resolved and hopefully he will see that he made a mistake in breaking things off with you. I've come to understand that guys do some weird and crazy things because majority of them dont know what they're doing....meaning they dont think before they act....and when they finally do realize what they did, they regret it. Time is the essence to healing and so the best advice I can give you is give him his space and time so that he can figure things out. Just try to show him that you're being patient and that you're always here for him if he needs you to be.
2006-10-12 03:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by bebechinadoll_01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but have experience with an ex. I still care about my ex, as in if something bad happened to them, I'd be concerned, but I'm very much NOT in love with him anymore, and actually despise him, and want nothing to do with him. It's probably the same thing with him.
2006-10-12 03:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men deal with emotions at a different level than women. You cannot judge what a man says with your own experience. A woman will talk about her emotions and feelings with others. Men don't or rather they are taught not to or actually never shown how to. A woman will still want to be friends. Men go on to the next one and don't want to be reminded.
He cares but, not like before. If he's young he's learning what he likes. If he's older, he's learning what he likes or he's found something that he doesn't or ...... Men rarely change unless they are attuned to the emotions and can easily talk about it. \
Most men keep their friendships at a very superficial level. Hey, how you doing? What about the Yankees? that sort of thing. Talk about money. But, talk about how you feel about this girl or that. Forget it!!!! That's why it is difficult for a man, including this one, to continue to communicate.
After 52 years, I begun to figure it out and be able to explain myself to people but, talk about my emotions? yes, very easily. I was desperate to learn. My choice though.
Good luck and enjoy life.
2006-10-12 03:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by gbdelta1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me he still cares for you as a distant friend but knows or thinks he does not want a closer relationship with you. Might also be he found someone else and well you get the picture.
2006-10-12 03:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on honey, this guy is a loser and has growing up to do. a better one will come along ... and if he calls you again, tell him to lose your number. what ever you do, dont call him ... he is full of games and crap. you will be over the feelings in about 3 weeks. pain is a good thing to learn from. good luck ... and focus on spending time with your true friends.
2006-10-12 03:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Skorpian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, but that is just me. Sometimes you care about a person, but just don't have that relationship chemistry! Some guys are jerks and butter themselves up as an excuse!
2006-10-12 03:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think guys mean it. they just want to avoid confrontation!
just want to calm you down. and the fact that you cannot call him is obvious that he doesn't want to see you for a while!! move on!!
get over it!! find a new guy!! hang out with friends!
2006-10-12 03:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lil_po 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is saying that he still has feelings for you ut he is not interested in a relationship with you.
2006-10-12 03:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's letting you down easy - he doesn't want to be with you, but he doesn't want to hurt you either - he's avoiding confrontation - just try to move on - be the better person.
2006-10-12 03:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, yes.
2006-10-12 03:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jer G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋