can you give me general information on what the reaction would be and so on....
thanks
2006-10-12 03:18:52 · 29 answers · asked by andrew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay. Let me get this straight. You are a MAN wanting to know how GIRLS usually act when a stranger comes up to them?
2006-10-12 03:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by belinda f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the trick.
You generally can't walk right up to them and begin to kick game.
It is incredibly easier if the approach is more subtle. For instance, go to the bar next to her and order a beer. Maybe ask her what drink the bartender makes well or jokingly ask why it is taking so long to get a drink. This puts her at ease and gives you a reason to be standing next to her. Also allows you to occupy yourself if she shoots your advance down.
Girls are usually pretty nice when a guy comes up to them unless you pick incorrectly and you walk up to some stuck up snob. Do not offer to buy a drink right away either. You could lose easily there.
2006-10-12 03:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing. Women are tricky little things, and just when you think you've got them figured out, they change! Yep, we do, and no matter how well you think you know us, we always hide an ace up our sleve, just to keep you on your toes. To answer your question...it really depends on what mood she's in. If you're hot, and you aproach her, and she feels sociable..she might find an interest in you. If you're hot and aproach her, and she's mad/frustrated/or moody, you're going to be blow off. It also depends a lot on what comes out of your mouth the first time to speak to her. Don't go to her with the intention of picker her up at the bar. Go and ignore her, for a minute or so, then slowly catch her attention. Then say something that will a) interest her (her selection of drink, clothes, or the place you're at) or b) talk to the bartender about something in general and aske her opinion. That will get you talking with out her thinking you're trying to get into her pants. It's all about presentation! Once you start talking to her, it's all down hill from there! Now it's up to you to keep her interested.
2006-10-12 03:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Evelyn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bothered and annoyed.
I hate men who try and chat me up. I don't give a flying f**k how good looking they are. It's annoying and a guy must be a real arrogant f**k to assume he can just walk up and chat to me, and I'd be so head over heals I'd wanna suck his d**k then and there.The last time a idiot tried to chat me up was at a bus stop, I was waiting for my boyfriend, and instead of telling this fool I just stood there smiling, until my boyfriend arrived, and very calmly said: "Hi Honey, I don't know who this man is, but he's being awfully friendly for no obvious reason" Ends up the poor fool works in the same factory as my boyfriend, and my boyfriend says this guy is making a lot of effort to avoid him at work.
That gives me a good feeling.
2006-10-12 03:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anria A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully it depends on what mood i am in at the time. What would you be saying?? If you was asking for directions then i would give you them while checking out your shoulders i love big shoulders in a man. If you was acting all creepy then i would run for the hills. Men need to have a personality if they dont then they dont stand a chance these days. Looks are not everything.
2006-10-12 03:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not to mention the hot flushes, and constant eye contact, the fast heartbeat, and whoa! the overwhelming feeling of sheer bliss that just makes a woman lose all conciousness of what is going on around her, because she is so focused on this hot guy......yeah meeting a hot guy makes me come over all unecessary, but what a feeling! believe me it is sexual magnitism right there, and then.
2006-10-12 03:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some act flirty, "hi... hehe" things like that.
Some act defensive because they get hit on alot. "what do you want" attitude
Some may act nervous because they are not used to the attention.. they'll fidget, avoid eye contact, gigle alot, or just freeze up.
all women are different though, so there are alot of different reactions... some might just walk away from you, meaning they either want to see if you are truly interested and if you'll catch up to her, and be sincere about knowing her.... or she may be walking away because she isnt interested, you have to read the signs... but if you really want to talk to her etc. then don't give up too easily.... never let your ego get the best of you.
2006-10-12 03:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends where. in a club then that is acceptable, in the street then i would be a bit wary of you, depended on what you said as well. some times it can be scary but then flattering . it just depends on how you come across how your body language is your tone of your voice,how you dressed. if a smart bloke come over to me didnt get to close spoke in a nice calm manner then i would not feel threatened in any way but you have to be careful all women are different
2006-10-12 03:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by crazycase2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you approach a girl and you give her the impression that your gods gift to women,then any girl worth being with wont look at you.if your just natural then you will have more luck in finding a decent girl and not just a bed buddy for the night.steer cleer of the immature giggling of girls,they are not mature enough to know what they want.good luck!
2006-10-12 03:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by lorna b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as you didn't intimidate me and stand over me, I would be flattered! The key is subtlety! Be gentle in the voice and actions and act like you are just chatting, not chatting them up, its amazing how good some men are at doing that!
2006-10-12 03:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋