i don't think ill ever be able to love again?im 26 male, fell head first for this amazing girl, been on and off for 5 years, got real serious for the last 2 years then because of a difficult situation things never worked out the way we wanted.I honsetly don't think i could go through this again with anybody else, my mates think im being stupid but im just trying to protect my heart.Has anyone got some good advice as im kind of lost right now?
2006-10-12 03:13:59 · 20 answers · asked by Lilbig/man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant really say much, the answers before this one have been pretty good, i just wish i could take your pain away, i wont say you will find a new love, a better one, cause its been said already, take day by day, you seem an extraordinaire person she must of lost someone great so i don't think she is doing very good herself.
Despues de la tormenta siempre sale el sol!!!
2006-10-13 07:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by sexy-latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there! You just have to be patient. Don't worry about if you'll ever be able to love again. One day, when you're ready you will. You have to give yourself time to mourn the loss of this relationship. The emotions felt when a relationship ends are the same as when someone dies. You have lost something special; so mourn the loss, but, and here's the big but, don't let it ruin your life, don't bore all your friends with how bad you feel, and the DON'T get involved with anyone else until you are sure you are over this one! That is unfair on them, and ultimately leads to even more pain!
Keep it together, and with every day that passes you'll feel better, then one day, when you least expect it, you'll find someone else, and it'll be so much better than what you've just lost!
It's all a part of life's rich tapestry! And remember, what doesn't kill us, makes us strong!
2006-10-12 03:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will feel like that right now as you are grieving about somethings thats dead and gone, same process as when someone close to you dies. You will grow through different emotions too but will get over it in time. You are still very young and concentrate on having fun right now instead of thinking of another relationship/woman etc, get strong first. Go out to socialise thats helps to keep your mind of things and fill in the gaps so that you wont have time to think too much. I believe in fate and whats meant to be will be, people come into our lives for a certain reason and then leave, nothing is forever just learn by it, have to go through the bad to get to the good. Best of luck x
2006-10-12 03:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was once in ur shoe
obviously u dont love ur self
of course u will find love again she is not the only woman in the world
right now u need to relax take a breather concentrate on u rself
find out what went wrong in the relationship
figure out what u did wrong and fix the problem
believe me it hurt when u break up
i have learn this u learn from experience next time just cherish every moment and be there and great to ur significant other and work everything out
take care n good luck
2006-10-12 03:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Come on ...Not to worry ...It is very natural That in this age sepetration and Joinings are very common. Defintely someone else will fill the gap in your life, which you are thinking that you have "Lost". You will "gain" also !
You Might have that charm to attract such amazing girls. So someone else will permenantly settel in your life.
Not to worry at all ...try to engage in the other activities of your intrest. Slowly some new breezes will come are let your heart bloom again.
Leave the lost, think about the rest, I wish you all the Best !
2006-10-12 03:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Gayatri Kumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time does heal all -or most wounds. give yourself time, you can't be expected to rush out and meet new women to plaster over another pain. it doesn't mean that you can't go out and enjoy your friends company or carry on having a life.
know that many people have suffered as you are doing and they do survive it. It is natural to feel like protecting your heart , and this sad ending does give you valuable experience. in future relationships you will be able to avoid situations which you know won't work. i think that when losing someone you feel so passionate about ,wakes people up to what they are looking for in a future realtionship.
friends and family may mean well when they urge you to move on. it is usually because they don't like seeing you in pain. appreciate that you do have them , but tell them when you are having a particularly bad day so that you can be on your own if needs be.
if you are feeling very depressed you should go see your gp.
2006-10-12 03:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated this one guy off and on from when we were in 5TH GRADE until I was a SENIOR in high school! We dated like 6 different times and every single time he either cheated on me or broke up with me and broke my heart and he did that 5 of the 6 times.. over and over. And I thought i loved him, but then I met the guy I am now engaged to, and he blew the other guy completely out of the picture. For the first tiem I broke up with him, becasue I realized I didn't love him as much as the other guy, and I should be with who makes me happiest. It takes a LOT of time to get over someone you loved, but it is possible, and you'll start to see that when you find another guy you fall in love with. Falling in love again is the best medicine for getting over someone who broke your heart.
2016-03-28 06:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty more fish in the sea as they say u r only young still hunni go out wit ure mates get blitzed and av a good time u av got plenty of time 2 settle down get married and av kids keep ure chin up babe x
2006-10-12 03:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jade C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone will come along when you dont expect it. Start a fresh move on dont let it put you off everyones different and if you split up then it wasnt to be. But dont let it ruin something that could be special.
Good Luck
2006-10-12 03:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you sound like a good man but you need to toughen your feelings up most women do not like emotional needy men this scares them off. You are young enough to love again but this time don't look for it love will find you. Sorry if this was a bit harsh but you needed to hear it
2006-10-12 03:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋