I need some real help from some good ppl plz?

Question

eveytime i hook up with a girl something happens...they either cheat in me or lie or somehing like that....everytime.....i am sick of hoes and sluts and stuff like that....i'm bout to just give up....any suggestions and plz don't mess around my heart has been broken enough

Answer 1

First off you must be a good guy!!! The only reason i say this is most the women i have been friends with **** in the good guys and fall for the BAD ones!!!! I never understood the whole thing myself... There will come a day where you will find the perfect person for you.. You are not doing anything wrong its just a preference that the women chooses... Good guys are hard to come by so consider your self lucky you are one in a million keep on being your self and the right one will find her way to you... Sorry for all the bad ones that have came into your life just remember what goes around comes around...Keep your head up and your heart open!!!!

Answer 2

Well you can start by raising your standards. I mean do not go to pick up a girl half drunk at a bar. Find some good friends and meet a girl through them. Find someone with the same intrests as you. It is hard to suggest where to find a girl for you, because your defination of a whore or slut may be totally different then someone elses. I mean a women could have had alot of different partners, but that may not make her a slut. She may have had an active past and is truly commited when she is in a relationship. As for the lying and the cheating part, ask a girl if she is involved with someone or was recently involved. Chances are if she was, that something could still be brewing. Unfortunatly, a girls defination of lying and a mans defination are very different. A women will lie to avoid hurting someones feelings, while a guy will lie to avoid getting into trouble. Chances r if you ask alot of questions in the begining, (usually people tend not to lie when there is little invested) you will find out what you need to know before there are feelings involved and you will be able to decide if you want to persue a relationship.
Hope you find what your looking for out there.

Answer 3

Unfortunately it's something about this type of woman you are drawn to.
A lesson I learned early; Just because it looks good to you, doesn't mean it's good for you. My suggestion, really get to know these women first. Being a single person, I would go out at least twice a week with someone different, give you a chance to see different types of personalities. Which ever one you like the most start going out with her a little more, but don't totally commit to anything, be a friend first. Eventually you will see her true colors. Either way you will feel better by taking your time.

Answer 4

Try not to ever fall- "Too hard, too fast"! Meaning, take things slow, especially at first! It's important to establish a "friendship" initially, that way there is a bond being built from the get go! Make sure you establish the key factors of a relationship early on as well! These would include-Honesty, communication, trust, and spontaneity! Don't ever expect something out of your partner that you wouldn't be willing to give the same or comparable in return! And, just because you may have run into a couple of bad apples doesn't mean you should throw the towel in! Every woman is different!

Answer 5

Luv,

You're probably always getting involved with the "wrong" type for you. But also remember that today's girls (the young ones) are taught and brought up to treat their men like crap to avoid emotional attachment. See although cheating and lying has been around forever, I feel like it was much less common back in "my" days when I was single and not married. Or maybe it's just because I forgot most of it!

There are some good girls out there, not all of them are lying and cheating "hos" like you describe. You may want to either try dating other types of girls than the ones you usually did, or maybe hold off for a while until you get emotionnaly attached to any woman. Maybe waiting until they "mature" a bit will make dating them easier on your sensitive self... maybe if they mature enough they'll be more sensitive themselves to your needs.

Good luck!

Answer 6

hook up with the hoe's & Sluts. They never want a commitment just a good time. Whats wrong with that.

Remeber Hit it and quit it

Answer 7

It's a character issue (theirs as well as yours). You need to meet a different sort of person. You will never find a good person in a night club or online. You need to join organisations that you like and meet women who are like-minded. You should also widen your social circle to include women in other countries, especially asia where women can have more disciplined behaviour. Drop the trash and look for women with class.

Answer 8

First of all.. There are good ones out there.. if you stop looking for the hoes and the sluts, you'll find them

Answer 9

Damien, ask yourself this quesition. What are you doing to attract this type of woman? Where are you meeitng these woman at? Don't ever give up ok. There's plenty of good women out there, stay positive. Women hate it when a man lacks confidence, they can sense it.

Answer 10

You obviously haven't met the right woman yet.Maybe you are meeting them in the wrong places?Or maybe you don't get to know them well enough first.Slow down and enjoy just the dating.It will all work out eventually.Good luck!