my bf has a best friend and when he is around my bf acts weird?

Question

do men who are friends feel emotionally attracted to each other? do they define their relationships w/ friends w/ the ones w/ their gfs?

do men care more about their friends than they do for us? how can i tell my bf is not actually attracted (in a bad for me way) to his friend in any circumstances?

Answer 1

men care more about their friends. good friends that last long are hard to find.
maybe his friends haven't seen the good things in you that is good enough for your boyfriend. or maybe his friends might have a crush on you. it's possible.
so you should try to build a good conversation with his friends then. know his friends is essential. and be friends with them is too.

has he had any history regarding same sexual relationship?
find out from his other friends..
if not, then there might be an issue between your boyfriend and his friend..

Answer 2

I don't really understand what you're asking. Are you implying he's possible gay? That may be a little extreme seeing that he's dating you. However, I can relate to this problem. My boyfriend has been best friends with his best friend since way before we were dating. It's a loyalty issue. They also don't want to act sentimental or caring around their guy-friends if that's not how they normally act. It makes them look weak, and the last thing they want is for their best friend to think they're girly or something. As far as do men care more about their friends, I think they do, but only when they're with their friends. When he's with you, I think the important thing to notice is if he cares for you then.

Answer 3

I think that you should talk to your boyfriend about that because the way you are saying these things would lead me to believe that he's either gay or bi.

Answer 4

actually he friends are just friends but love is little bit different may be there is another reason for it please do check it out