So anyway I am at work and there is this girl I like, we joke around and IM each other but she does not know that I like her. Our office is on the second floor and the only way there is up a steep flight of stairs. So lately she has started slapping and pushing in a playful way (I Hope) so I decided that I would, you know play back in the same way. Well the problem is when I pushed her we were at the top of those crazy stairs and she went down, screaming all the way. She was unconscious when she got to the bottom so I don’t think she felt anything, so that’s good. When she finally gets out of the hospital should I ask her out?
2006-10-12 03:11:26 · 16 answers · asked by momojo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she understands that you made a mistake and doesn't think you were trying to kill her, then maybe take it slow. It's a possibility but I definitely wouldn't say yes to someone who put me in the hospital. Sorry.
2006-10-12 03:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, this is kinda tough. I think the safest answer is no and apologize and continue on with the friendship, but I do believe that you should go after what or who you want, so, I say, pay half of the hospital bills or all of it if, its no trouble. Next is to make up for what you did, like help her out of cars, open doors, pull out chairs, buy food, small gifts or a massage, whatever you like... you can work this to your advantage, not only are you saying sorry but you are also spending time together...Make sure you show how sincere you are, then maybe when she totally forgives you, you're both close, you can ask her out. Good luck!
2006-10-12 03:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she'll really like you that much because you sent her to the hospital accidently maybe if you pay the bill she might. . . But I would stay away from her for a while then ask her out give her a little to to fully recover
2006-10-12 03:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you are kidding me you can not be serious!
if this is true and your not joking about see if you can make a laugh out of the incident and then ask her for a coffee or something humouros as to the incident that happened!
2006-10-12 03:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now thats something you dont hear everydayLOL!!! serious?? then i think you should send her aHUGH! BOUQUET of beautiful flowers,tell her how sorry you are.yes,let her recover first,be there for her..when things get back to normal(your usual flirt-playfulnes,then sure! ask her out,but be paitent. best of luck though.
2006-10-12 03:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait for her to recover, send her rosses with a card that says I am sorry, would you be my girlfriend? I will make the falling up to you.
2006-10-12 03:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, then shove her down the stairs again.
2006-10-12 03:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pmsll poor thing yes ask her out that is if she is talking to you and if all goes well you have a great story to tell the grandkids lol
2006-10-12 03:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait till she gets out?
Ask her now before you lose the chance, you never know sumone may beat you to it!
What hospital she in? haha good luck!
2006-10-12 03:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I thought I only had luck that bad! ha ha ha ha should you ask her out? ummmmm not before giving her a the biggest damn bunch of roses she's ever seen! with a card attached that states "I'm soooo sorry please forgive?and will you have diner with me when you get out?" oh and I will be your personal slave! hopefully she didn't brake anything........
2006-10-12 03:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋