there are days he doesnt call at all..why do men do this? at least once per week we ll fight about the fact that he doesnt call and i ave to call all the time..
2006-10-12 03:10:44 · 9 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he must have other important things to do when he does not call you at all. you should discuss with him why is he doing this, maybe he is busy with studies, work or just a bit of time for himself to relax and unwind. everyone of us needs time alone. he can also be afraid of committment, and by calling you himself he feels as if he is committing himself.
what i suggest is that next time you try to talk to him about this matter, do not argue, just ask him quitley... maybe find some time when you are together alone, cuddling and bring up this subject, but do not argue. communication is the key for every relationship to work, and if you are both in love, and you do want this relationship to last, you have to know what is going on on his mind. Good Luck.
2006-10-12 03:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not b/c he dont like you im sure b/c my b/f does the same thing but i know he loves me its just when we argue he dont want to say things that will hurt me so he wont turn his phone on for a day or two, long enough for him to calm down and think about what he wants to say...we always work through it though and i hope you and ur b/f do too...
2006-10-12 03:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be possible that he avoids you. But it is you, who are the best judge to cross examine him with facts to get the 'real answer'. But be careful that you do not lose if he is faithful otherwise. Best question that would suffice at this juncture would be --- "can we marry?" See his reactions. Secondly, not all the guys are like him. Do have positive approach to this aspect.
2006-10-12 03:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him.
and if you never hear from him, move on.
You come off as desperate when you keep calling him, too needy and too clingy. He may feel that you give him no room to breathe.
Maybe he isn't right for you.
2006-10-12 03:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by billm_07456 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for your bf but I call my gf almost everyday and when I don't call it is because I want her to call me. His reasons are his own mine is what I said above.
2006-10-12 03:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 things
1- he could be cheating
2- he could be afraid of commitment or u may be rushing the relationship
2006-10-12 03:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So stop calling him.Make him wonder what you're doing,where you're at and who you're with.
wait for him to call you no matter how hard it is.When he does just say "I'm sorry but I have to go.Talk to you later.Bye."
That'll straighten him up.
2006-10-12 03:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't only one man in the world my dear..
why do you keep pushing yourself to think that he cares about you? love hurts sometimes.. just get over it!
go out.. have fun.. meet new friends.. meet new guys.. :)
2006-10-12 03:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lil_po 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you like that... Find someone else... The world is full of men..
2006-10-12 03:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋