My sister killed herself on Sunday. She was very unwell and I didnt get to say goodbye to her. I need to know that she is peacful and happy now and that she hasnt got any pain anymore. If there is anyone who knows about this kind of thing, please get in touch with me.
2006-10-12 03:09:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
That is so sad!
I will pray for you and her soul.
I can't judge the souls of others, but we can still pray for her peace even though she is gone.
You might want to talk to a member of your Clergy if you attend Church, if not, you might want to talk with a Priest, they will talk with you even if you are not Catholic.
I imagine that Protestant Preachers would do the same.
Peace and God Bless Her, You, and Your whole Family in this difficult time.
2006-10-12 03:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that and I know you are going to feel the pain for a while. Just speaking from someone who has lost a lot of close people to them, some due to suicide, I know they are not suffering anymore. I feel sadden to hear when one takes their own life because their pain is so unbearable. They may not feel the pain anymore but the people left behind sure do feel it.
2006-10-12 10:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by ckrug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry to hear about your sister. She must have been so desparately unhappy to take her own life. She will be at peace now and not in pain. She will always be near you in spirit form.
Try meditation, it is very calming and I am sure it brings our loved ones (who have passed over) close to us. Later, you could try going to a Christian Spiritualist Church. Even if you dont seek out a Medium, such churches, in my opinion, have a warm and loving atmosphere and you will feel very close to your sister.
My thoughts and love are with you. I know how difficult this must be for you. xxxx
2006-10-13 08:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lolly9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear about the demise of your sister, she is in peace with no pain and not suffering any more, if she is not with you in person she is spirit. It take 3 months for them to settle after death after that you can go and see a good medium who will tell you everything you want to know, go by recommendation. I have been to one every year who belongs to a spiritual church and he is very good told me things no one would know. She wont leave you and you are not alone. Am a great believer in life after death as I have had proof.
2006-10-12 10:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So sorry to hear of your very sad loss. You can be absolutely, definitely, 100% certain that your sister is totally at peace and feels no pain whatsoever - and this is true whether you are religious or not.
2006-10-12 10:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by artleyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be sure that your sister is no longer in pain. I wish the same could be said for you. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
I don't know if you believe on God or not, but if you do, please don't believe her act was a sin. God knows the difference between a sin and the tragic act of a hurting heart, and His love for your sister is undiminished.
2006-10-12 10:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by dave 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whether you believe in a loving God (who would of course have compassion for her) or are an atheist (even if there is no afterlife, at least she would no longer be suffering from the troubles she had in this life, it would be like she was asleep - no pain at all), i feel sure she is at peace. I feel so sorry for you and your family, please don't torment yourself with worrying over how she is.
2006-10-12 11:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nikita21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As one who has been through this, I understand your pain. I don't know how to find out if your sister is at peace. If I did I would tell you.
My condolences to you and your family during this most difficult time. Best to you.
2006-10-12 10:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by . 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Truly, I am sorry to hear that, you have my deepest sympathies. I send you a hug xx. I began to pray as I was reading your question=====and something happened--it was a sign from God your sister ,is happy and all is fine.
2006-10-12 10:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tinkerbelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is at peace because she is now sleeping. You will see her soon. Try not to worry about her, dead people dont feel any pain.
2006-10-12 11:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋