Parents cast burden on their children by their expectations.They want their children to be ultra sucessful in their career and studies and expect them to be exceptionally good in their studies. They make the career of their child a prestige symbol. Though do not myself agree tp this very much, i want to know your thoughts with good reasons.Please be as quick in answering as you can.
2006-10-12 02:59:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
its different for each child. In my case the pressure my parents put on me drove me whereas with my sister it sent her into rebellion
2006-10-12 03:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Direction is very important...A parent that is aware of their childs ambitions, and capabilities can be a strong positive influence in leading their children into the right decision.
However, in many societies/cultures, parents often have an overbearing nature, and this can be very stressful to their kids. This is since they just want the best for their own, and through their own experiences, and through the experiences of others, they often suggest certain careers/choices...of course, this doesn't necessarily mean that they are looking at strengthening the interests of each of their kids.
All in all, there are positives and negatives in each approach,... i think it all depends on the child, which style will be the most helpful to their success.
Hope it wasn't too long.
2006-10-12 03:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases yes and then no, it depends on how strong the childs mind is and it also depends on the mother and father of the child not to force there lives on the child. I have 2 sons and I would love to see them become more than me but I told them both that whatever that they do I will support that decision.
Most parents wants so much for the children not realizing that they are reliving there lives through there child and to me that is not fair at all.
Personally I think you should always let your children grow up to be there own person and not you. And to always be supportive.
2006-10-12 03:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they can cause burdens on the child, because the expectation of the parent isn't always the same expectation>>> (hope, dream) of the child... & it can cause much conflict between the parent & child>>> if the parent doesn't allow them to pursue their own hopes/dreams, it can cause the child to rebel against the parent & go in a totally different direction.
2006-10-12 03:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, parents cast a burden on their children. They do that because they try to prepare their children fro the big burden that awaits them when they get old enough to be on their own.
It's not easy making it in the real world when you first start out.
2006-10-12 04:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want an answer but you also want it quick. Yes, parents expectation DO cast burden on kids.
2006-10-12 03:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that parents expect too much from their kids that they don't realize that it is a burden to their kids. They think their kids are stressing out over nothing but would never realize that their kids are stressed because of them. Parents think that kids have no burden because kids don't have any bills. But they don't understand how kids feel.
2006-10-12 03:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents can cast what they want...its up to the child to live their own lives in spite of what the parents want. Independence plays a lot into it. I ALWAYS did it MY way and I am 37 with NO regrets.
2006-10-12 03:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Parents want something better for there children than what they had so they insist that we do better in anything we do not just career wise but also in love life, and no matter what we decide we will never fully please them cause they always want better and there really isn't anything that they can think of that is better couse in there eyes we deserve the sky.
2006-10-12 03:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the strength of the child.
it should not be a burden because it is just the parents wanting the best for there children when they grow up
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2016-10-19 06:32:42 · answer #11 · answered by avey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋