I was talking to this girl getting along perfectly and every thing looking good. Got some arguments and she was in total control and started ignoring me at the same time saying I want this to work…changing her mind every third day at the end I this is it….. Now I am always thinking about her and thinking if she is going to call me…all my friends are saying move on...... advice
2006-10-12 02:50:35 · 19 answers · asked by stock2004dc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your friends..... Or keep enjoying the drama!
2006-10-12 02:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys need to sit down and talk...I'm not sure if you were able to settle your differences after you argued. Maybe she just told you everything is fine just so you won't argue anymore but truth is, she still has alot to say. All these pent up feelings have caused her to be confused. Call her, talk things out...ask her if she wants out of the relationship or if she's willing to work things out as much as you do... then take your cue from there...Don't just move on without resolving your issues with her.
2006-10-12 09:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by zac8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want another mom. She may really care for you but doesn't have to show it cause you run after her like a puppy dog. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. It will also make you grow apart. Try flirting with one of her friends, when she isn't around, it will get back to her. If she wants you she will chase you.
2006-10-12 10:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1stly do u love her enough to say you do?
if yes then maybe you should try and settle things through communication, get her to have a conversation about how u feel about her and what's on your mind!
if no then...it's best to finish things here + find someone else BUT dont force yourself to forget her because it's best to still be friends right?
2006-10-12 09:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by saiyuki c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never let a women be in total control. Move on
2006-10-12 09:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with rejection, she knows the ball is in her court and she has control of this relationship...Take back your power and move on...don't allow her to keep you on a string...
2006-10-12 09:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you and can't seem to make up her mind about the friendship. I woudn't talk to her anymore until she decides that the two of you can talk civily and not just whenever she feels like it.
2006-10-12 09:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there before, Seriously move on , trust me, if she does this to you now and sees you take it she will always do this. move on , find someone who respects you. i know its hard at first but i promise you u will be happier
2006-10-12 09:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing for two or three weeks
that girl needs some thinking time
2006-10-12 10:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this continues maybe you should let her go or also you should try to be ignoring her until she comes to you.
2006-10-12 09:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by princess neptune 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋