i've known him 4 years,these last 4 months he has been looking at me in an unuseual way.i sent'm a msg asking him if he had feelings 4 me,he didnt answer.the next time i saw him he was still looking,so i sent'm another msg asking about these looks,he also didnt answer,but when i sent asking y doesnt he answer,is it so hard?he said yes coz i'm his little sis&he's trying to act normally!!!.i took it as it is &stopped thinking about it,but i just saw him and he's looking more than ever(it's the kind of look that hurts ur stomach,or maybe just mine)should i ask again?or what do i do?
2006-10-12 02:37:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he kind of asked me out before about two years ago but i didnt approve but now i'm willing to.does this mean that i should make the 1st move this time?
2006-10-13 06:19:58 · update #1
Thats a hard one is it that you are attracted to him too, or you just dont like it. I thiink he likes you but dont know how to handle it because he see's you as his little sister. But he needs to stop looking at you like that thow if thats the situation.
2006-10-12 02:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope being little sister is metaphoric and not for real. Are you 14 and he is 20? He has a serious problem, if he dates you. People will think he is a pervert who is taking advantage of you, and (God forbid) if you two have sex, he could be accused of rape. Are you both of legal age? ( I doubt it). That would make the situation much better, so, just for your question, lets say the age difference is not a moral challenge. You need to tell him that you are attracted to him (if you are), give him your honest feelings. Yes, you are laying your heart out to be broken, if he is really big brother, he is not going to hurt you by telling everyone what you said, and he might be waiting to see if you like him or are just flirting to make him look foolish. Good luck
2006-10-12 09:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u r around him or when u meet him next time act normal and be communicative. If he likes u this will give him a chance to respond. Try ignoring these looks and don't think of it too much. Just a waste of time. If he's interested in u, he'll mnake a move. I guess u've known him for a long time so he shouldnt have problems explaining things to u. I u are not interested in him, if he pops the question, tryt to act cool and try to keep the friendship if u feel its worth it. good luck!!!
2006-10-12 09:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Chief 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him more than a mate? If so, you go for it girl & dont let anybody get in your way. Umm..if you look at him like a big brother then just be normal when you see him next. Sit down & tell him how he's making you feel. Sounds like you 2 have alittle talking to do...good luck sara
2006-10-12 09:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st know your own feeling i.e. what sort of relationship are you willing to have with him. Start down that path. At least since the feminist movement guys are a little less actively on the hunt.
2006-10-12 09:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by viablerenewables 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be asking questions like that over messages. It is so impersonal especially regarding someones feelings. Ask him straight out. If he says he does have feelings, go with it. If he doesn't, again go with it.
I swear that text messaging and MSN have taken the class and personal touch out of dating...
2006-10-12 09:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother asking the third time. it's useless...he does'nt have the guts to stand for he's feelings. if he likes u more than a sister or a friend, he has to justify the way he looks at u...if he likes u, better for him to have the courage to just say YES! it's not so hard to do it. after all the blushing when he does so, heaven's waiting for him! if again he realizes courage's reward--and that's u baby! mmmm...lets just wait for him to grow his balls, ryt? DONT BOTHER AT ALL, U'LL B FINE!
2006-10-12 09:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by hEprEbeL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him. Any guy that looks at you like his lil sis, just sounds plain weird to me. If he wants to play games, let him play them with somene else. You don't need that.
2006-10-12 09:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are brother and sister by blood you should see some help b/c this is not normal for you or your brother to have feelings of the romantic nature for each other. i would talk to your mom and dad let them know what is going on or you could regret this for the rest of your life!
2006-10-12 09:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say the ball's in his court leave him to decide maybe he will come round ands ask you out just give him some space
2006-10-12 09:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by anna w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋