he broke up with me 2 months ago. saw him a bit during thefirst month of being apart but now have pulled out of his life coz it was hurting me. he texts me every couple of weeks just asking how i am and tellin me what he is up to and asking questions about my future. why is he doing this ivtold him i need some space.
2006-10-12 02:34:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either he wants to be in touch with you or that he is still in love with you
2006-10-12 02:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex left me 2 1/2 yrs ago, i was a mess and bombarded him with text's to which he totally ignored. In the end i got on with my life then he started texting me and still does to this day telling me how much he still loves me and i will always be 'the one' for him. i finally told him i had met someone else and was happy, he was a complete **** but then the texts still kept coming and i feel that i have to reply as he is very depressed and i worry what he will do- it wouldnt be the first time. Try and ignore him dont end up like me, good luck x
2006-10-12 10:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by lilangelx5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you with your ex for a long time?
2 years ago i split up with my boyfriend of 4 years. After the split he wanted to remain friends but i was so heartbroken that i was unable to continue our relationship as "friends" so i told him it was hurting me too much to remain friends and i thought it would be better if we just went our seperate ways. he agreed to this as he could see i was truly hurt. A few months later i hit an all time low point in my life when my grandad died and my stepfather was diagnosed with cancer. I didnt know who to turn to and my ex ended up being th eperson who was there for me. he is now one of my best friends and was the first person i told when i found out i aws pregnat a few weeks ago.
So after the initial hurt has gone maybe you can find it in your heart to be friends with your ex as he may turn out to be the person you will need later on in life.
2006-10-12 09:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by ollieoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks you may bring up you guys or thinks he made a mistake and misses you. There are a lot of reasons, just ask him what the deal is and if you feel uncomfortable with him textin you then tell him to leave you alone and don't answer him. Once you ignore him enough he will leave you alone.
2006-10-12 10:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by jfurlerbaby23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just have to do this. I don't get it either. my bf's ex texts or rings him every couple of months and until now i've got upset about it. He's with me so why bother getting upset. he doesn't contact her or encourage her but it's just taking her time to let go i suppose or she might never stop. It's bloomin irritating so I'd say either don't reply or don't tell him things. my bf tells her it's none of her business now they aren't together hen she asks him but he wishes her well and will not be horrible to her. try not to let him wind you up and drain your energy or change your number
2006-10-12 10:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you pulled out of his life, he is now manipulating you by sending text messages. He is going to be aware how they hurt you. Tell him, although you enjoyed his company in the past you are now ready to move on. Then change your sim card and go out, hopefully it won't be too long before you meet someone who appreciates you and treats the you the way you should be.
2006-10-12 09:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by caza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think he misses you and now realizes what he has missed out on and is just trying to reach out to u annd give u space at the same time,u know what they say u never knowwhat u have untill u loose it so ithink it's up to u now to make your decision on if u want to communicate with him or not
2006-10-12 09:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably still cares about you and being friendly phone him agn and try to see what his thoughts are but dnt let him kno thats ur plan GdLck, x
2006-10-12 09:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by monaUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is testing the water because he realises he has made a mistake.
2006-10-12 09:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels bad about the break up and wants to try to patch things up. u must b hurting a lot, so ignore them or tell him to f*** off
2006-10-12 10:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by Alicia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋