my gf's phone rings a lot. she only answers her fone if its someone I know. when I confronted her about it. she said what has she done that make me don't trust her. should I just trust her? because at the end of the day, she chose me. and I am the one that she takes home to meet her parents.
2006-10-12 02:34:15 · 19 answers · asked by LeoRS250 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure. at night it's you she brings to say hello to daddy and mommy. but during day or late night, it MIGHT BE somebody else she's shagging. if she's found somebody someday that she can both shag shag shag and also bring home, she might leave you. and you would have just wasted hell lot of time.
ask her to give you her cellphone. if she asks why you dont' trust her, tell her that do you but lately you've been feeling insecure. and if she wants you to trust her, she can hand over the cellphone to show she's done nothing wrong. that is the actions of a person who is completely innocent.
2006-10-12 02:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by callieRach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand how you feel with this because why would she only answer her phone when it's people you know????? I don't have a problem answering my phone in front of my boyfriend no matter who calls because i'm not hiding anything, but if I was I would try not to answer the phone, so I see why your worried here. I'm not saying that she's cheating, and i'm not saying she's not cheating either. Just give her the benefit of the doubt right now, and trust her until she proves you right otherwise. Always remember that just because someone has not done anything to make you not trust them doesn't mean their not doing anything wrong. It also doesn't matter that she picked you at the end of the day, and your the one that she took home to her parents. If a person wants or is doing something behind your back that will all mean nothing.
2006-10-12 14:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question whether or not something is going on then there is a problem, unless you guys have not been together long. She could be feeling like you would get upset if you knew she had other male friends. That's y they say communication is the key to a relationship. The next time the phone rings and she is not going for it...walk away and see if she calls them right back or if she sends a text. If its nothing then she won't bother answering after you leave.
2006-10-12 09:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Chen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this happened to me to. I was the one he was engaged to but when the phone rang, he wouldn't answer it claiming it was his sister he was mad at or a friend he didn't want to talk to. In the end, he was cheating with numerous women. FYI: just because she takes you home to meet the parents doesn't mean she is cheating nor does it mean that she has chose you for the long haul. If you don't mind you being with other guys and possibly finding one she likes better than you, then go for it and keep going as you are. I guess it is a personal choice.
2006-10-12 09:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by lady_reed_03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should trust her. A phone is just a phone. She is with you most of the time, where she *wants* to be. I think you should relax and just realize that she does have friends, she had a life before and she has a life with you. She chooses to be with YOU. No one else. And you are the one that she takes home to her mom and her dad. You have nothing to worry about, and really, you have no reason not to trust her. So....... TRUST her. I beleive she really loves you. And just YOU. Blessed be.
2006-10-12 09:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. Relationships and trust go hand in hand. If you don't trust her that it is hard for the relationship to be strong and continue. You need to sit down and talk to her about it. It could quite possibly be that she doesn't want to interupt your time together with petty things. Communication is the next step though, speak to her calmly and tell her your concerns regardless of that fact that you "are the one she takes home to meet her parents". If she is with you most of her free time, it's doubtful she's cheating but for the sake of your relationship and your peace of mind you two need to talk. If she isn't willig to sit and talk with you about your concerns then, I'm sorry to say, she isn't worth your love.
2006-10-12 09:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts may be telling you to be cautious in this situation although you may want to reserve judgment (or reaching conclusions) until you know more. I'd examine how well I really knew this person or how much I already knew about her. If you like her....stick around until you know otherwise. Building trust is a crucial issue in any good relationship
2006-10-12 09:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all do you love her as much as u trust her ? are allways thinking about her 24/7 do u know if all the things u feel about her she feels the same about u have you heard she a player or something? because if u don't trust he u don't love her
2006-10-12 09:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by dylan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust her until she gives you a reason not to trust her. Be a good boyfriend and overwhelm her.
2006-10-12 09:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are insecure and weak. this is not a question about her. You need to look inside your self and figure out what your issues are. Be a man. Stop whining about her phone. She has a life. You should get one too.
2006-10-12 09:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Thoughts Like Mine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋