my mum and dad are wanting to move abroad once i have finished school... do i have to go with them or not as ill be nearly 17?... what would you do... go or stay... your points of view please??
thanks xx
2006-10-12 02:32:23 · 18 answers · asked by danielle h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do they want you to go with them?
I would stay and go visit them for free holidays in the sun
2006-10-14 23:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be good if u moved along with them.You are grown up but that does not mean you have to stay without them.The good thing for you is that its going to happen after you finish your schooling so there is no excuse of missing friends or trying to make new as once you join university you will have to do that even while staying here.If you are worried about how the new city would be then well you can stay there as if on vacation and try to check out how you can adapt to the city and still if any problem persists then talk it over with your parents and see if there is any better alternative where you all will be happy.As far as i am concerned i would pack my bags on the first instance and go.
2006-10-12 10:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by saltandpepperin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally I would go with them, your still very young to be living alone with all those boring responsibilities just yet, you would see something else of the world and learn new things as well as making new friends too, if after after about 5 years you just can't stand the pace of it anymore you can always move back to England and live your life your way, good luck.
2006-10-12 11:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go what have you got to loose,if you don't like it you could always come back,i want to move abroad my 20 year old daughter wants to come but my two teenage sons don't,so i have to stay.Don't make it hard for your parents they are obviously going for the hope of a better life.
2006-10-12 09:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not give it a try. If you go and don´like it you can always go back to UK. If you don´t go you will never know if it was a good move or not. I moved to Spain 3 years ago and would never dream of moving back to Britain.
2006-10-12 10:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Northernbloke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might find it very lonely if you don't go as there are still a lot of things that mum and dad are always there to advise you at your age. so my advice is go and maybe in a few years you might be able to return with a more settled feeling
2006-10-16 09:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with them, be a great opportunity to live in another country and learn a new language. Can always come back if you hate it.
2006-10-12 09:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have lived abroad for 10 years now, 2 years in cyprus and 8 in germany-and i am in no hurry to go back to uk-in fact im dredding it, very expencive to live there now!!
2006-10-12 09:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, do you have a job? A way of supporting yourself? If so, try it on your own. If not, go with them. I would say it really depends on if you couild make it on your own. Maybe get an apartment with a friend.
2006-10-12 09:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, take into account that abroad is very likely to be full of foreigners...
2006-10-12 09:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by benga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋