I am attracted to the pastor of my church... I believe he feels the same! I know that we have a connection, I just think that it is so out of line to tell him about how I feel. I lay awake for fear I will just spill the beans what should I do?
2006-10-12 02:30:13 · 13 answers · asked by kourtney j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him. It not like God is going to throw away the keys on you. Your'e being honest. THOU SHALL NOT LIE about it. Every pastor needs a first lady. And, beside every woman should be a good man. So, do it girl! Don't let this opportunity pass you by.
2006-10-12 05:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what denomination you are or if your pastor can be involved in a relationship.I will just let it go,move past it.We sometimes have feelings for people who show us extra or special attention,(I'm not saying this is what you are going through).I have seen this happen thou,and when something is said about it,the relationship changes and all parties feel akward.Give it some more thought, see if this relationship is possible(if he can get involved).If it is,don't just come out and tell him,ease into it,,take things slow.If he cannot be involved,by waiting and you finding this out.You will not put yourself or him in a weird position..Hope this helps..Good luck.
2006-10-12 09:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one is he married ? if he is stay away from him!
if not take one of your Friends that you know well and will not talk about this and meet with him and tell what you are feeling and thinking, he might like you to or maybe not and he is just a nice friendly pastor
2006-10-12 09:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your a beautiful girl. I am sure the pastor would be an idiot to turn you down. If he is allowed to date women, why would he say no? I wouldn't! Makes me wish I was a pastor!
2006-10-12 09:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by brkeng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did this for me once.. that's all it took.
Get him a wine glass for the next holiday/birthday.. ask him if he would so graciously fill it with his 'man seed' (you can help, if he allows it). After he has erupted into the glass, down it like a cheap who re at the bar. Look him in the eyes, and he will tell you that he is in love.
2006-10-12 09:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by thatotherguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you are both single, if not disregard, and stay away from him,if so..... ask him out for coffee, or dinner. Spend some time with him and see if it is real or if it is a crush. DON'T tell him anything yet, there is plenty of time for that, but you can't unsay it once it is said.
2006-10-12 09:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your both single, ask him to go for coffee sometime. He is a pastor it is his job to talk to his congregation, I can't imagine he would turn you down.
Then see how it goes, just one on one, and decide rather or not to tell him then.
If one of you is married, then you have got to be kidding us...
Good luck
2006-10-12 09:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should forget the preacher man---considering he'll definitely be a 2 pump chump. I can make u feel much better than him :)
2006-10-12 09:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him. Lifes too short. What's the worst that can happen x
2006-10-12 12:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has shown you the sign that he interested in you, then you can go ahead and tell him what you about him, but if not just you cool.
2006-10-12 09:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋