my husbands moms cat died yesturday. he was 15 yrs old. i know she is very upset. should i get her a card or what? she loved him very much.
2006-10-12 01:57:23 · 11 answers · asked by Moniluv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sure, why not? I think that would be a lovely gesture. And I am sure that she would appreciate your consideration. To many people, their pets are family members. And, after 15 years of companionship with her cat, I am sure she feels like she lost a family member. You are sweet to think of her because of losing her pet - go for it and bless you.
2006-10-12 02:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by amora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A pet is like a member of the family. A card would be a nice gesture
2006-10-12 08:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be a very nice gesture. I don't see why not, people treat their pets as one of the family and you would send a card if it was a person in her family that died.
2006-10-12 08:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
urm a new cat or a new card? if you meant a new cat then no. not yet at least. let her settle down first..its 'something' like a break up..you need some time to overcome the situation first then only you can get back on your own two feet to accept another one. if you meant a card =p just make it a short one
2006-10-12 09:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by teenvamp23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cat of 16 years died a while back. I was embarrassed about how devastated I felt until my friends here at work gave me cards, flowers and etc. I will never forget their support. It meant the world to me that someone understood. Support her!
2006-10-12 09:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The loss of a pet can be devastating. I always appreciated getting a nice card and even flowers. Try printing the poem "Rainbow Bridge" for your MIL. That helped me tremendously and I've passed it along to many others over the years.
2006-10-12 08:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes!
To some people pets are like their child, so letting them know that you understand that it's hard for them to lose a pet that they loved will mean a lot to them.
Flowers can't hurt either.
2006-10-12 09:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a card would be a nice thing to do, it will let your mother know that you care. be sure to say something nice about the cat.
2006-10-12 19:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, get her a card
2006-10-12 08:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be a nice thing to do
2006-10-12 09:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by KeKe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋