Ok so there's dis guy who i lik and he likes me supposedly. he tells me all da time. and we have a real close connettion, but he doesn't want a relationship cuz he's afraid of wut it will do 2 our friendship, but sometimes he'll say he wants a relationship, and then change his mind again, is he really jus dat afraid or is he bout dem games? Sometimes he'll make me mad cyz he'll say da wrong thing and then when he sees im hurt he'll then say he wanna be wit me, but then after im ova it, he'll say he dont wanna be wit me, so im goin friggin outta my mind tryna figure dis dude out, I NEED HELP plz gice me your comments! this question is mainly for da guys to answer but females answer too.
2006-10-12 01:51:55 · 11 answers · asked by Here2Help 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some guys cant express their own self. just like they are thinking of a thing and says the wrong one... some guys dont wanna have relationship with their love ones because they know that when their relationship is broken, there will be a break in their friendship and they dont want it to happen.. some guys are testing the lady they want to be sure that they have faith with each other, through this, there will be a strong relationship. and i think that he is a guy with all of these.. oh by the way, if he is playing games with you, he is now your boyfriend because he will take the advantage that you like him... So, he is not playing games with you...
2006-10-12 02:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lanthander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like u said, he only says comforting, nice-sounding "I-wanna-be-with-you"s when he sees u're hurt. If he was interested totally, he would not be acting the way he is.
I dun think he is playing games.. i just see that he just doesn know what he wants but he knows he doesn want u at the moment,...
2006-10-12 02:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a female its time you put your foot down and ask him to be real with himself as well as you about whether he wants to be in a relationship with you or not. Scripture says, when I was a child I spoke as a child, I thought as a child, I understood as a child but when I became a man I put away childish things. You appear to be a mature female who has some idea what she wants out of life in general so its time to find out what he wants to do. either he wants to be in a relationship with you or he wants to remain friends.
2006-10-12 02:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be in this relationship? You cant even
say its real. You deserve to be with someone that will love and
treat you right. You need to move on , their are lots of nice guys
out there.
2006-10-12 01:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Hmmm....
I think he likes you but he is afraid of commiting to you because he doesn't wanna ruin the best things about your friendship...
Guys do that sometimes when they are confused...They say yes but then no because they dunno what to do...
He does like you though and he isn't playing games..Just tell him straight out
"Do you like me or not and if you do stop playing these yes and no games because it is hurting my feelings "
2006-10-12 01:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by vitalsignsdollie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a book out called "He's just not that into you", can't remember his name, but he has been on all the talk shows, and has his own show now , i think at 3 pm EST. leave the guy..why put yourself through this?
2006-10-12 01:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by strut526 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 01:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
enjoying video games with you? It in simple terms sounds like out of sight out of ideas. He could no longer have enjoyed you as much as you think of he did. If that is bothering that issues are not occurring the kind you want, then shop your distance. provide up demanding approximately people who do no longer want you. It makes issues a great deal much less complicated.
2016-10-19 06:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by avey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself... move on to a real relationship... and watch your player go through all these changes tryin' to get you back!
Tell him no, but we can still be friends....
2006-10-12 01:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is playing games let him go find someone elas
2006-10-12 01:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by babykey15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋