i've known him 4 years,these last 4 months he has been looking at me in an unuseual way.i sent'm a msg asking him if he had feelings 4 me,he didnt answer.the next time i saw him he was still looking,so i sent'm another msg asking about these looks,he also didnt answer,but when i sent asking y doesnt he answer,is it so hard?he said yes coz i'm his little sis&he's trying to act normally.i took it as it is &stopped thinking about it,but i just saw him and he's looking more than ever(it's the kind of look that hurts ur stomach,or maybe just mine;) )should i ask again?or what do i do?
2006-10-12 01:36:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he really wants to tell you how he feels but its hard bec it seems like he shouldn't feel this way towards you bec of your long friendship I've been in the same predicament and its hard to just come out and tell someone who you've known for forever that you have feelings for them
2006-10-12 01:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by ebony princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey surprise him and ask him on a date. Tell what he's doing isn't going to help your friendship and how it's making you feel. Encourage him to share more with you and think about whether you want to take a chance with him and ask him the same thing. Be up front about it and don't keep putting it off because he's obviously not. Good luck.
2006-10-12 08:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by janet_67_1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is a little bit shy or his mind is totally complicated. If u really really like him then just go on asking. i experienced such kinda thing, and i just gave up but now i am so sorry about giving up. and don't worry all boys are like this.. if u r friends then it makes so hard to decide... but don't try sending msg again, just go and talk to him face to face
2006-10-12 08:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by es r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me he thinks of you as a little sister, maybe he is afraid he will ruin that relaionship if he tries anything. Sounds like your friendship is important to him. Set him down and talk to him. IF he feels the same way you do about him go for it. But remember a bad relationship may cause you to lose your friendship too Is it worth it?
2006-10-12 08:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you but the fact that he sees you as a sister might be bothering him. Maybe he wants to have a relationship with you but then he thinks you are his "little sister". Don't ask him again, ignore him or treat him as you usually do, but give him time and when he's ready he'll come to you.
2006-10-12 08:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by princess22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl no dont ask again he likes you. He likes you alot obviously he just wants you to make the next move. He does not want you to be mad at him or mess up the friendship thats why he is acting the way that he is but its okay. Just let him know with your physical attitude if you like him or not. Next time he looks at you like that if you dont like him like that push him litely and say boy if you dont stop looking at me like that like you are playing with him. Dont take him seriously and let him know that you are just going to buddy buddy play with him.
2006-10-12 08:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by DeborahUlloa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe asking face to face is better? you've known him for quite some time so its ok to just talk to him. little sis? im confused there =S
2006-10-12 08:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by teenvamp23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a little sis to him he says so I would just leave it alone.
2006-10-12 08:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on there are more fish in the sea , try to find one that appreciates YOU , for who you are !!!
2006-10-12 08:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by rocknrod04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the most useful thing you can do it's to pray...think a bit that we don't know a lot of things but HE knows everything, even if you must continue to see him...pray my dear!
2006-10-12 08:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Vass Emanuel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋