We dated (lived together for 8 months, 3 just as roommates). Best relationship I have ever been in. She's the happiest, most fun person I have ever known. Sexy, beautiful, different, and useful (like handy!). I think she may be perfect! We knew it wouldn't last from the beginning--her career took her to the East Coast, I moved to the West Coast for family--but we really fell for each other. I asked her to marry me. She said, "No. Yes. Maybe. Let's see where we end up." We cried A LOT the last week we were together! (sappy, I know) I'm having a hard time getting over her and we talked about that. I decided to not call her but to be very happy when she calls me. So she doesn't call for a few days, and now she calls every day. Talking about the new guy she likes. But also talking about US, and how happy we were. She even talks about our sex life. And then the next breath she is talking about how we could have never worked. And then back to those memories. What is she saying? Really?
2006-10-12 01:36:16 · 13 answers · asked by madpoetwandering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she's actually trying to convince herself that things between you wouldn't have worked. Her talking to you about the new guy is because she trusts you and knows you will be honest with her when it comes to giving advice. As hard as it is to hear it, you should still be there for her. And remember, if you call her about a new girl, she might very well get very upset. Double standard yes, but that's how us women work. As for things working out for you two as a couple, give it time. If it's meant to be, it will be. Until then, you have created a wonderful friendship and you should keep nurturing it. Good luck!
2006-10-12 01:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by kari w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means she is a bit confused let her talk it all out and if she makes up her mind and be happy but don't get soggy again or try getting a new girl to have your eye on and I've learned form experience long distance relationships never works I've learned the hard way.
2006-10-12 01:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think she still loves you.
She's just calling you and talking about the other guy to get your attention.
She's replaying all the memories you had witch means she's still thinking of you.....
But when she talks to you on the phone and realises your not intrested, she would quickly say that you wouldn't have worked out...
Just call her and tell her you love her and you want her back and how special she makes you feel.
Don't let her say anything before you finished talking about her and just her...
Good luck
Let me know how it goes...
caring_sm@yahoo.com
2006-10-12 01:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tha girl is obvoiusly inlove with you but she doesnt know it yet i think you should go see her give her a surprise visit and tell her how you realy feel about her show her that you mean it and even propose again be rvery romantic and say nice things about her and make her feel secyre coz that is how she is not feeling right now not secure make her secure she will be yours and act fast before you lose her good luck
2006-10-12 01:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by zinja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you too. She's having a hard time moving on. Since she doesn't really know how to choose... she's taking the easier way out: She's trying to make you choose. If you choose to walk away, then she doesn't have to. This is why she keeps mentioning the other guy. She's hoping this makes it easier for you to walk away from her.
Get it?
2006-10-12 01:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear you have to go through this,I have gone through something similar and its hard. It sounds like she still loves you very much in my opinion and is talking about this "guy" to see what reaction it gets out of you. Good luck to you.
2006-10-12 01:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetie1204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really wants to be with you but she feels in the middle right now give it time and it will work out
2006-10-12 01:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is confused because she like s someone elsa, but also has feelings for you. Also sounds like she might be trying to validate liking this other guy and make sure it is ok with you.
2006-10-12 01:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't keep your thoughts to your self put it out on the table and ask her "why she is trying to confuse you?" cuz no one in the world could know whats inside a woman heart unless she showed it to you.
2006-10-12 01:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by no begining no end 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She misses you and all that you have been to her... you are
probably the constant in her life and the other is the unknown.
2006-10-12 01:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋