I've had a few long tem relationships with girls that didn't mind. I'm on the singles scene again and wondering would you girls dump a great guy because he's got a hairy back?
2006-10-12 01:34:04 · 38 answers · asked by Jay W 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
I wouldn't, but if it is going to be a problem, why not get it waxed?
2006-10-12 01:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the clean chested, clean backed boyband look is totally fake and overrated. Most men have hair and if they don't they will eventually. A waxed back takes a lot of maintenance and can be sharp when growing back in like our legs get - not great for cuddling up to. To dump a man because of his back hair is a very shallow thing because you could be missing out on the love of your life. How would you like it if a man said "should I dump this woman because I found out she has stretchmarks" It is something that nature has formed.
2006-10-12 01:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm married to a guy with a hairy back and although i dont like hairy backs I wouldnt dump him because of it. Weve been married 14 years I can overlook the back thing Im sure there are some things about me he dont like
2006-10-12 01:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like guys with hairy backs.
2006-10-12 01:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, no. But everyone has diff preferences. ask yourself too. the tables turned, would you dump a woman for a hairy back?
Either you change and have it waxed, or accept (once in a relationship) your partner how she is! I think things happen for a reason, and possibly this is a chance to look at it from a third angle!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 01:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Maiyuri P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend of 3 years has a hairy everything!!
It bothered me at first but now i'm ok with it, he's a complete hottie and the most amazing person i've ever met, very rare and he's all mine...... sorry... went off on one! x
It's just hair!! He waxes his back if we're going on holiday - beach holidays and in the summer.
And I trim his back and chest hair every week, so it's neatly lined up with his shirt collars.
I would never not date a yummy guy cause he had a hairy back, that would be silly.
But if it's bothering you, get it waxed. x x x
2006-10-12 01:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by Little Miss B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly wouldn't dump him. I would have trouble not jumping on him. Hairy hem are a big turn on. If you feel bad about your hairy back them so will everyone else, just accept this is how nature made you, and partners were made to match.
2006-10-15 05:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by the dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't dump him but I don't think it's attractive either. Why don't you just wax it? How would you like it if a girl had hairy legs all the time? It is not attractive but I wouldn't dump a guy over it.
2006-10-12 01:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by lazycat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd wait a couple of months till I knew his pain threshold and then wax him.
Hairy chest is fine though.
That bit between the belly button and the waist line makes all woman weak at the knees!
2006-10-12 01:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GoodMorning-
Reverse the question back to you... What is it that *truly* matters in a relationship? Is it a hairy back or is it knowing that he offers you and provides for you in ways that you need?
Hope this helps
2006-10-12 01:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by tahitidreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not dump him, but would definitely ask him to wax it. Can't handle the hair on the back.
2006-10-12 06:38:15 · answer #11 · answered by mom of two 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋