is it possible to actually find a faithful man out there! me personally think all men cheat at one point in their relationship! i just wanna kno are there some decent guys out there that are committed to that special lady in there life, and no im not talking about your mom or daughters!
2006-10-12 01:11:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Don't give up. I was married for 20 years to a woman and never cheated once. She divorced me because she fell in love with her boss. I've since re-married, and we'll be celebrating our tenth anniversary soon.
There are a ton of good men out there. You just have to keep looking. Good luck.
2006-10-12 01:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say 99% of men cheats in a way or two in life, to their partners. A cheat is a cheat no matter if they are sexual.
It's just a matter of your love for him and his love for you that would hold on to one another.
For me, I still look at other ladies when I'm out with my partner (when I have one). But I make sure she's the only one I get sexual with. I still fantasize and all, but some consider that as cheating. No? But I don't.
You will just have to lower your personal restriction and nurture your maturity level to understand these are all parts and parcels of life. At the same time,set your own rules and you will not go half wrong.
It's hard to tell you what's right or wrong here... But being too harsh on yourself is not gonna take you anywhere. Just be sure when to let loose and pull out.
Good luck!
2006-10-12 08:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question raises an interesting point.
let's say you go out with your guy to a dance. he is not a very shy guy, and he's not particularly flirty or outgoing either. let's say he's just average, and he's enjoying being out with you.
the two of you sit and talk, and have a few dances.
there is a small group of happy-go-lucky guys on the other side of the room. they are well-mannered and obviously not looking for trouble, just decent guys who enjoy dancing.
one of them comes over and asks if you would mind dancing with him.
it's no big deal, it's just a friendly invitation to dance, so you get up and go dance with him.
can you see where I am going with this?
It is not so much that your guy feels jealous....he knows he can trust you, and as I stated the other guy is polite.
the point is that he has learned that for you, a night out with him includes any other male who desires your company.
another scenario:
you have a night out with three of your girlfriends, during which your group bumps into four guys out together. one of those guys is just a little more charismatic and outgoing. after some friendly bantering you manage to draw his attention, and the two groups pair off and spend the rest of the night out as four couples.
a relationship develops. how could you have known that of those four guys the one you chose was the only one who goes on to be a cheater?
my point is that the choices you make do have an influence on the way things turn out.
2006-10-12 08:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think about the same way but i am about to marry a great guy and I really dont think he would ever do that to me we are about to have a baby life could not be better. But see life is that great would he still cheat?? Good question I think that it is possible to find a great guy but I would not want to jinx myself and say that my man would not do that but hey I really truley 99.9% think that I actually found one of those guys. Good luck to you!!
2006-10-12 08:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by DeborahUlloa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband. I knew him when he was with his ex and he was always a good boy even when she was away at school. He is now. He dosent even go out. However,most guys do cheat. Most of the guys he works with do. I know two other men who I firmly believe are faithful,probably out of fear.
2006-10-12 08:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear that is possible
me and my girlfriend have been together for three years andf i have never cheated on her not even once and i have never wanted any other woman apart from her believe me dont worry when mr right comes you will know :)
2006-10-12 08:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by zinja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is but this kind of faithful men is really hard to find now a days and even if you found them they are mostly taken by others and even if you want to start a relationship with them, it really hard... cuz mostly are shy and afraid of relationship...
2006-10-12 08:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Adrien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might need an attitude change.Not all men cheat.Perhaps the men you've dealt with have cheated?
2006-10-12 08:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-10-12 08:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd truly love to believe it...Though i doubt it. He may be madly in love with you but its like an ego thing i just dont understand it.
2006-10-12 08:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋