I'm dating a new guy ,hes hot and sexy. and a good lover I want to be with him only maybe 3days out of a week I dont know why I need to get out and flurt I dont want anyone else whats my problem?
2006-10-12 01:07:39 · 13 answers · asked by sue b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You aren't ready to commit.I have a new boyfriend and If I could I would spend every waking second with him.You need to rethink your relationship.If you love him you shouldn't feel the need to flirt with others!
2006-10-12 01:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you crave the attention. Do you seek approval? Are you happy with yourself? These things can cause you to look for attention else where. Also, maybe homeboy isn't the one for you. Does he stimulate you thoughts? Do you miss him when hes not around? I miss my girl all the time. Even when i hang up after talking with her for an hour, i miss her terribly. It has been my experience that when you are with that person you are happy, and when you are not around them your still happy, you just miss them, but the thought of that person brings a smile to you face. If you still feel the desire to flirt, then you have to resolve that within yourself. No one can stop you from flirting, you have to do it for yourself. Loose yourself in him, and if he is the one, he will reciprocate. Don't be afraid to fall to deep. Our choices in life are the only thing we can truly call our own. You will know when its time to stop if you discover yourself. Explore what it is that makes you flirt, and the feeling you get when you do. Then flirt with you man. It will drive him nuts!!! I promise. Talk to him like you would a stranger. That rush of a new interest can be appealing, but deadly if your trying to have a relationship. Don't hurt him. You will regret it if he is a good guy. Be honest with him, and yourself.
Good luck,
R
2006-10-13 10:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rico12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A previous question indicates that you have not long left a previous rocky relationship.
You possibly are falling for him, but it would be normal at this stage to be commitment shy.
Maybe you do only want him as a f**k buddy.
Allow yourself to be a little clearer about your feelings but then talk to him about your reservations, he probably has some too. Only if you talk will you make this the best relationship it can be.
2006-10-12 09:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by muffdiver4u1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dating him and yet you don't want to be with him, THEN DON'T BE WITH HIM. Dating is not by force. Probably, you're just with him for the sex. Fine, then set clear boundaries. Tell him, you want an open relationship as you're not ready for commitment and see where it goes from there. And if you can't do it, then make yourself available only for sex, soon, he'll get the picture.
2006-10-12 08:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dear , it just might be an infatuation that you will get over, sexy guys have that efect on all woman....just relax and enjoy while its lasts, the last thing is to appear desparate as if you fall for every guy you meet in 3 days, so chill
2006-10-12 08:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Thang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fear committment.
You like what you have but you don't want to tip over the apple cart.
2006-10-12 08:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ar just a fish on a hook. Quit stuggling and enjoy it.
2006-10-12 08:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not ready for a steady commitment,
2006-10-12 08:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur too much controlling him just let it go and nature it will take it's course
2006-10-12 08:10:15 · answer #9 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him but not yet ready to be commited..:)
why not try being his friend?
2006-10-12 08:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by ettienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋