im facing psychology problem,
is because my current girlfriend , actually had much boyfriends before and have sex with them too,
actually i mind , but i dont want let her know!
is there any way to solve my problem?
i know i'm abit selfish for thinking like that..
but i cant control myself ..
everytime she seems so professional when we talk about some sex!
and she's my first love!
2006-10-12 01:04:08 · 11 answers · asked by nick_chai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont want to marry her you will not have any problem
2006-10-12 01:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know this when you started going out with her? If so them yes you are being selfish. She is with you now, who she was with before is her business. Some guys would say you are lucky, hey there isnt anything wrong with her teaching you a thing or 2. But if you cant handle it then you need to just get out cause if you cant accept her then you never will be truely happy. There are plenty of fish in the sea who can live up to your standards.
2006-10-12 01:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your trouble is immaturity, you do not tell us your age. Lots of people male and female have sexual relations today! The sexes are liberated from the old Victorian attitudes! she has done nothing wrong! If you are twenty or over, then it's not immaturity it's you! Go and see a good therapist before you wreck every thing
2006-10-12 01:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soory to ask this but have u had any sex b4 u met u gf? if u had, than it's not fair to her that u hv this perception of her.. if u had not, than be professional.. try! probably she's just messing with u..
sex without love will not reach the pinnacle.. u have not had sex with her, than dont..(even if u had), show her that u are not only interested in her body but her love..mayb then u should spent more time with her.. love is greater than sex and more addictive.. spend good time with her till she cant wait to go out with u more often.. but plz make sure that u love her, else it will break her heart..
2006-10-12 01:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by I need a vacation! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and Forget! It is in her past before you!It would mean alot more if young people would wait on sex .Men the same,it hurts women to to know their boyfriend has had others.Try to wait on sex until marriage,don't just jump into bed with girls you think at the time your in love with.
2006-10-12 01:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by tennesseemom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only answer I can give you being as you are not happy and have no trust for her is dump her and move on.But first maybe you should talk to her about the problem.
2006-10-12 01:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of thing can be hard, but the only ways to do this are to give her up or to get over it.
2006-10-12 01:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk Ur concerns out with her.....if u don't tell her how u feel u will suffer from it. She can't b that experienced unless she is a slut!! Good Luck
2006-10-12 01:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fell that way because is your first way, maybe, but try to be more empathic, when you are abset because of this, try to think that just a felling because we all have an ego, and its in our nature to fell that
2006-10-12 01:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by diana d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do ur best in the west and be beast from the east
2006-10-12 01:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋