2006-10-12 00:59:10 · 27 answers · asked by blondegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely not.Allow wrecked ship of love to remain where it is.Are there any reason to continue collecting the same impressions which led to end.Crew were not prepared for sailing.Only what you can do is to learn something from experience, not to repeat mistake in the future.If you want to check your standards of evaluation (the base for learning from experience) try with Dr.Paul Hauck, How to Stand up for Yourself.If you feel it isn't for you stay away.Good luck.
2006-10-12 01:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by oceangleam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite simply, no. You miss someone for a while after you split up with them and sometimes wonder why you split up in the first place but if you end up going back out with them you soon realised why you split because nothing is the same apart from the bad things that were there in the first place. Move on and get someone new.
2006-10-12 01:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. It's something only both of you can determine. Obviously you split up for a reason in the first place, so if that's something that still effects your relationship, then it could be a huge factor, only you know why. But if you're thinking of getting back together, then you obviously still care about each other, so there is still a chance.
All relationships take a lot of hard work, and dedication on both parts, so if you choose to try again, you may need to address issues surrounding why you broke up before you can move on.
Whatever you choose to do, good luck x
2006-10-12 01:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know exactly why you split up and exactly for waht purpose you are getting together again. It won't work if you're just thinking `well, it might be worth it!' You must also have a good idea about where you want to go in the relationship and how you are going to work practically on the things that drove you apart in the first place. Good luck.
2006-10-12 01:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by twinkletoestheballerina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! My current girlfriend and I went out 2 years ago and split up after about 8 months. 4 months later I accidently bumped into her on the south bank. We got drunk and I ended up at her place. We then spent every teusday night together for about 3 months before we got back together properly. Are relationship is much stronger the 2nd time around!
2006-10-12 01:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this answer is based on some issues- how madly do you love the person, how much shared commitment you have ( kids, marriage), has the person improved at all since (regarding reason for split) and have you missed the person or able to progress forward - this is not only meeting somebody else but also evolving as a person.
2006-10-12 01:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Maiyuri P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because all the same issues are still there, there was a reason for the split in the first place, that is what one needs to remember...
2006-10-12 01:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends entirely on the reason(s) why you split up.
If you split up because he hit you, he was a drunk, he was having it off with all and sundry - then don't go back
If you split up because of work or college (and purely time or distance stopped you seeing each other) then maybe you can give it another try
2006-10-12 01:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no no no remember you split for a reason if it was going to work you would of still been together get over it and find sum 1 new baby
2006-10-12 01:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so because you split up with them for a reason.....if you got back with an ex then you would prob break up for the same reason again if not then something else...
2006-10-12 01:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by lil niks 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋