they have, and this enrages me wen i go out, to see smiles, laughter, giggles makes me ANGRY grr, to no i cant have a girlfriend because of my circumstances, i feel ignored excluded from society and life. ive been told to thaat it would be hard for me to even get into employment because ive never worked because of my mental health and that im 29
2006-10-12 00:55:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Do you love yourself? There is only one other person that loves you MORE that you do; Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
He gave His life on the cross for you and everyone that Believes in Him. Stop greiving your Holy Spirit inside of you and start loving yourself. You are the only one that can change the way you feel inside. Say NO to Hate, Jealousy, Anger, Bitterness, Fear. Say YES to Love, Kindness, Hope, Courage, Victory.
I've been were you are, and at times I still have troubles and problems, but You have the Power to Change. I did, so can you. It's not going to be easy and it's not going to happen over night. but Your Life will get better.
I've been reading a book by Joyce Meyer titled "Battlefield of the Mind" Check your local library to see if they have a copy. This may shead some light on your troubles.
Here's the main point; YOU have to want to get better, You have to start reprograming you mind. What you think in your mind effects the rest of your body and your life.
Instead of saying I Can't, Say I CAN
Instead of saying I Won't, Say I WILL
Instead of Hating Others, Start Loving Them.
Having a Positive Mind and Thinking Positive, and Doing Positive WILL start having Positive Effects in Your Life.
Don't believe all the crap people have told you all your life;
You Are Someone, You have a Purpose, You Can have a girlfirend, You Can Find a job, You Can have a Happy Life. It's up to You.
Start reading your Bible, get back into going to church, seek the help of others, like your doing now.
It's in the Bible, John 10:10 "The theif {the devil / evil people} cometh not, but to steal, and to kill, and to destroy {your Holy Spirit} : I am {Jesus}come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly" {Plentifully supplied}
In that verse is the words [might have]. There is a condition, you have to ask God through His Son, Christ Jesus for help in overcoming your problems.
In the Bible, Proverbs 3:5-6 says "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. (6) In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths."
I hope and pray that You Will overcome ALL of the problems and troubles that you are going through in your life. Praise God our Father for all He does for us each day; in Jesus name i pray Amen.
2006-10-12 03:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Carl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is unrealistic to think that EVERYONE can have a story-book life. Even those who are better off financially have debt, lovers have fights, luxury cars break down, and vacations go bad.
Be happy for those who are happy. It isn't easy to do so in today's world, with so much holding u s back.
Learn to overcome this obstacle. Instead of focusing on other people's happiness, work towards your own. There is no time or day set for when his will happen.
And hey, if you don't have the "happily ever after", BE PROUD that you gave it your all!
2006-10-12 08:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by rouschkateer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be on some type of medication for anxiety/depression so you can handle social situations better. To be jealous or envy what someone else has is a sin. Try to get yourself together and also talk to a counselor. There is help out there and a light at the end of the tunnel you just have to seek the help and believe. God Bless and I wish you all the best.
2006-10-12 09:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Darcee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes people smile and it means nothing. Here is a good clue on that one.
When someone smiles see if it reaches their eyes. That is a true smile.
Don't always think that all is good with everyone, because it is not guaranteed.
Please get some help for yourself with a professional , they can be very non-judgemental and kind to you to have you understand why you feel this way!!!!!!!
Good luck
2006-10-12 09:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kay M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because their life seems happy...doesnt mean they are. people can fake smiles people can fake happiness. You dont know what goes on when you're not there. They may smile at the world, but in their home they could cry and hurt. Almost everyone has a problem at somepoint. Fairytale endings belong in books not in reality.
2006-10-12 08:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by nataliebaroness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question.
Go to therapy, get more mentally stable and get into society and get some of what other people have - like...a life
2006-10-12 08:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, you need to look into a counselor to help you over come this, my sister in law ( who has anxiety & bi-polar)
was like this, she sees a phychiatrist , got a job coach & now she works part time @ a hotlel, she loves the job & getting out of the house, good luck & please get help
2006-10-12 07:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋