I have had a big crush on this guy in 2 of my classes for nearly the whole year. We were really close and He came over to my house about 2 weeks ago...and...We kinda hooked up and made out...(this is so embarresing) He left in a rush and I havnt heard from him since. He used to call me all the time! I SMS'd him on his b'day but I had no reply....Please help me, Coz I have no idea what to do! Thanks in advance!
2006-10-12 00:28:02 · 11 answers · asked by -Ashlee- Eeeep! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give up, it sounds like its over.
2006-10-12 00:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by "hooking up" you mean have sex, then it is quite possible that he was only looking for sex and not a relationship. Maybe he was scared by the level of intimacy or maybe he thinks your easy and wanted to drop you. My point is that this is all speculation. You may never know what went on until you ask him yourself. If you guys were really close then you should be able to talk to him about this. Otherwise, forget it. If he was your close friend he would have enough respect for you to return your calls.
2006-10-12 07:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by caplady2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goe's out to you
Back off for a bit
Find out waht his krytonite is:Breast , Derrier ,Legs Feet and Toes
Dress to accenuate his peronal kryptonite(if it were me your legs would be bare , clean shaven toes pedicured wearing a tatesful skirt and open toed shoes any wear from flip flops to low high healed strappy sandaled pumps )
Be around him several times without hitting on him
Then touch his hand , arm shoulder and gauge his reactions and take it from there
Hope that helps
2006-10-12 07:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh! it seems like you had been hit and run by him... girl, forget about him..there's no use of you thinking about that guy.. if he feels the same way then im sure he will be the first one to send you a msg. but he didnt..so it means that he's not interested anymore... so just move on and forget that guy... dont act like your really wanting him..meet new guys but be cautious....:)
2006-10-12 07:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by ettienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound good.
Let him be.
Anything you do will just aggravate the situation.. no pt asking him , texting him to ask what's up becos he prob doesn want to have tt kinda conversation too..
Accept that it was an awkward mistake and learn from it.
Don't make out with pple who are not ur boyfrens!
2006-10-12 09:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he got what he wanted and moved on. I'd let it go and find someone else who wants/appreciates you. Good Luck!
2006-10-12 07:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ericka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like he is interested, but boys are silly sometimes. Just play it cool, ignore him and get on with life. Please dont push yourself on him; keep your self respect intact.
2006-10-12 07:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by Obsidian butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he used you. I would avoid seeing him again.
2006-10-12 07:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by keys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play it cool.MAKE it look like your no more intersted. DONT play desperate.
2006-10-12 07:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try calling him. most guys will nit reply sms'
2006-10-12 07:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by platinum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋