I am being teased everyday. Im absent today so that i would avoid the teasing. Kinda stupid reason for being absent no? I'm weak..but because i believe that i will be saved. but i feel that the teasing will keep on going stronger and stronger each second. what should i do..
2006-10-12 00:02:09 · 11 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Noone is just gonna be "saved".
What you're doing is called "self-inflicted immaturity" (translated from German, B. Brecht's Mouther Courage [book] is about that topic), meaning you're totally aware about what's wrong but refuse to try to change what you are able to and just accept it and wait for a saviour.
In just being absent you send a message that you're ok with them teasing you, you're allowing them to tease you and if you think you can't cope anymore just avoid any contact at all. That's the wrong way in my opinion, you're making a victim out of yourself when you don't have to.
Talk to someone about it. Talk to them. Don't let them do this to you. It's your life, don't allow them to decide how you have to live it.
2006-10-12 00:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by nik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm taking it that you are in high school. Now, I'm a teacher's aide and I can tell you this sweetheart ok. Go to your principal, go to a teacher, go to an aide, go to a janitor, go to someone any one to report thier actions. Do not be afraid of retalation, because once a school is aware of the situation, it is the LAW that your saftey becomes paramount in that school. The school can be, and should be sued if any retalation should befall you.
Now on to justice, it depends upon how you believe sweetheart. Christians believe in the Great Day of Justice when Jesus comes down out of heaven and judges all souls. Wiccans believe that if you do something good or bad then it returns to you three fold, that you never get away with anything, which is a very comfortaning thought really. Hindus believe in reincarnation and karma. It just comes down to your believe system sweetie, but ever religion in the world has some system to deal with the unjust, hope this helped you sweetheart.
2006-10-12 07:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by LunaFaye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they will! But the first thing you should do is pray. Secondly, I'd let my parents know what the hec is going on! Let them step to the Principals office and explain to him/her what's going on. Our schools here in PA have the no nonsense rule, they'll suspend a child for bullying in the blink of an
eye! Also, let your parents go to the other childrens homes and let them
know that they will sue for harrassment if you aren't left alone!
If that doesn't happen, just keep on going as long as they don't put their
hands on you. You may have to learn to fight back! God didnt make
us to be abused mentally or physically. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do!
2006-10-12 07:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Catswoman1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 church and don't worry about what other ppl say they dont know u... and ur not weak ur just weak minded 4 feeding in 2 the negativity...also, u should't throw away ur education over something as adolecent as teasing...u gotta rise above that and b tha bigger or even better person
2006-10-12 07:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by haute_bluntafai_420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say where you were being teased. really hard to help without more specific information but remember we who are tolerant must be tolerant of those who are not. and like my dad said, " son if they are teasing you they like you and are leaving someone else alone. "
2006-10-12 07:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh don't give up now, we are so close to the end of this world,
Keep the faith and pray daily
2006-10-12 07:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are weak if you allow them to get the best of you like what you are doing. you are a human being too.
2006-10-12 07:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey those people will open their eye's one day and truly be sorry, you keep the faith and I'll say a prayer for you...God Bless!
2006-10-12 07:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God will surely punish the unjust
2006-10-12 07:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by IndianLight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God leaves NO misdeeds unpunished.
2006-10-12 07:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋