Me and my twin sister really want to find our dad we havent seen him since we were three years old thats when my mum hrew him out how do we go about doing this any ideas??????????? Please
2006-10-11 23:20:20 · 8 answers · asked by keran j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know this may be hard for you and your sister to do.... but you need to speak to your mom. She's always there for you through good and bad. If she loved you and if you really really wanted to meet your dad and show your mom this she should eventually help you through it.
It's a long process and a lot of the times people come up with not finding who they're after, after all time and effort they put in.
This must be quite hard for you, not even remembering your dad. And it will be uncomfortable the first few times. If you do it with professional help you'll be going through DNA tests non-stop.
I really really wish you good luck!
Email me (Superstaramy08_13@yahoo.co.uk) if you want more infomation or help. I'd really like an email explaining your process and results too. Good luck and have fun!
2006-10-11 23:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by x_Super_Social_Superstar_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of search engines that could help you. The only one that i know of that is free is Yahoo people search. Key in his name, and if you don't know the state he lives in, then leave that blank. Put the approximate age in the query. Other links will give you information but you'll have to pay. If you go on peoplefinders.com and "key" in his name, age- it will provide you with at least some initial free information. Reunion.com is another source.
2006-10-11 23:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really sad that you want to find him esp.since he has not been there for you ? your mum must have had a good reason to throw him out, sounds like shes the only one you need to see and let her know how much you appreciate her....its hard raiseing kids alone, your mum deserves better from you, your father was never there!
2006-10-11 23:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom about why she threw him out. Chances are that if he really wanted to contact you he would have. If he hasn't you're probably better off not knowing him.
2006-10-11 23:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually how old are u now ..?
if u are big enough to ask ,ask ur;mom that u need to see your dad and if she react bad or whatever ,look for ur'cousion and tell him about what u fill and what u need ,he/she the one who can help u ..?
2006-10-11 23:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by stoffu85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom about that, shes the best (and only person) person who knows about that the most.
2006-10-11 23:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by -Answer- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will your mother give you girls your fathers SSN? that would be one great way of finding him...Also if you know his full name you can attempt to find him over the Internet there are all kinds of websites that you can go to that help with this kind of thing.Try going to yahoo white pages I wish you both the best of luck in finding your father....
2006-10-11 23:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can express my sympathy but cant give any solution of it.
2006-10-11 23:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋