I need to try and get a better relation ship with my mum i really want to but have no idea how she bought me and my six sisters up oh and my twin on her own with hardly any help what can we doooooo please help
The Twins Kaz, Kez
2006-10-11 23:16:33 · 7 answers · asked by Karen J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
why don't you all get together and have a surprise we love you mum party each of you make a short speech on how she has helped you and how much you love her
2006-10-11 23:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by trvrrhds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Kaz & Kez,
I think the best way to build a better relatiionship with your mum is by being very supportive on her wants and needs. You said it yourself that your Mum was so brave and gracious enough to care for your family without anyones help. I guess she would really appreciate it if you take a little responsibility by helping her take care of yourselves and your family.
In case you want to have a healthy relationship with you Mum. Maybe this is the time you could start communicating with her over cookies and milk. Asking her how isshe doing and what is she upto. Stuff like that.
Good luck. I wish you the best.
2006-10-12 06:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by jitterdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your mum about her experiences in being a single mum and raising you all? This way you can get a conversation started about your lives together. You don't mention your ages or your twin's age. I'm sure your twin could register for some social services help if she's on her own. Ask around and see where your twin could get help.
2006-10-12 06:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is talk to her. Let her know you know what she did for you and that you love her for it. Then try take some of the strain off by helping out at home. Good luck. She sounds like a great women.
2006-10-12 06:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a great, funny, helpful, supportive and smiley child. The more you do this the happier and nicer you are to your sisters then they'll be happy too. Try not to argue and fight and your mom will love the way you're all great mates and not hasseling her. Good luck!
2006-10-12 06:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by x_Super_Social_Superstar_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you appreciate how she has accomplished rasiing you and begin helping out more. I dont know your situation , but look around and see what you can possibly help her out with. If there is anyway continue to better yourself or your sisters as well, that is one way, to h elp show her that you can do better somehow.
2006-10-12 06:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job
your mum needs financial assistance
don't go digging into how she made her money, you might not like the truth.
2006-10-12 06:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋