2006-10-11 23:11:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She has all the luxuries and comforts provided by her husband. The problem is she is excessively religious and spirtiual and spends most of the time in devotional prayers.
2006-10-11 23:17:12 · update #1
She does not have medical problems even. She has given birth to two kids. All this started to happen after Ten years of marriage. She started turning religious slowly. After all religion does not disallow to make love. It is this love which is helpful in taking the universe ahead and responsible for producing the posterity.
2006-10-11 23:20:39 · update #2
if you are in India, take her to Ajanta Ellora caves and show her the interlock and bonding between religion and sex. it is not a man made thing sex is created by god for the benefit of humans. to get the humanity going, ease off mental tensions, enjoyment. dont abuse it, overuse or wrongly use it and she should be fine.
bring her presents, sexy dress etc..
2006-10-12 00:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by ashutosh s 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First of all why in the world won't a wife want to have sex with the man of her life? Ask her why she's not interested, hear her side try to make amends, there is a reson why she doesn't want to, probably you may have hurt her or you've ingonored her but when you have the desire to, than you want her to just give in like that. well, women are not machines that you turn on and off, start from the beginning of the day, shower her with kisses, be more affectionate,while at work if you can, call her tell her how much you love her, come home help her with the household chores like stopping at the supermarket, getting some things for her that you have not done for a long time just make her feel loved once more.etc.etc.etc
2006-10-12 06:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If what you say is the only reason she is this way then it is her religious obligation upon entering marriage to love her husband. You can either start to join her in her prayer sessions or begin to talk to her about her obligations as wife. Maybe there is something else bothering her and she needs to talk it out. This is common with religious types as some religions almost play down the sexual aspect of life and make it seem unwholesome to be involved in sexual activity. This is one of the plays of the Catholic religion but primarily it was meant to be aimed at extra marital relationships. If there is a minister involved or a priest you may want to contact them to see how they have been influencing your wife but before you do that maybe you should talk with her over dinner, with wine and candlelight, and don't forget to bring some roses and make sure you smell like one both inside and out, which means no coffee or cigarettes please.
2006-10-12 06:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask her about this as to what she expects you to do.Because only she can tell why she doesn't want to have sex with you.
May be she is not getting enough satisfaction out of it.Ask her for her point of view on hoe she wants it to be done.Ask her whether she feels any pain while doing the sex.Lack of satisfaction and pain are the two main reasons why women don't want to have sex.You haven't mentioned anything about her age but sex drive withers away in the old age and sex also becomes a very painful activity.
You may take her out of town, for example a hill station, which will freshen up her mood about things.
2006-10-12 06:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her out on a dinner. Make her feel comfortable. Discuss about the early days of marriage in a very subtle way. Things will improve.
2006-10-12 06:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by thomas t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her the queen of your life and be kind - thoughtful and consider her feelings-on a consistent basis-show you care-tell her how much you appreciate all that she does-( and if she says that it is her job- tell her you still appreciate her and what she does) that should melt her heart- and make her want to make love w you-make sure she is not making love because it hurts- if it hurts she may have a medical problem- D
2006-10-12 06:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like its time for a divorce on grounds of severe and repeated mental cruelty! Of course we havent heard her side but in ANY event its time to part the waves!
2006-10-12 06:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't really care what kinda of religion doesn't allow sex, but it's wrong !! You need to romance her, tell her she's the most beautiful woman in the world even if she is not. Tell her you want to have a third child and then wear a condom.
2006-10-12 06:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by nbr660 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to talk to your Minister/pastor maybe he could talk to both of you about a healthy marriage. Maybe your wifes thoughts on religion clash with her relationship as a wife. Try also to be romantic, bring her flowers or go to church with her to show that you care about what she thinks is important. good luck
2006-10-12 10:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Geraldine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you say she is very spiritual and religious, i would suggest that you become involved with her and show an interest in what she is doing to make a better connection between the two of you and therfore, she will feel closer to you since your showing an interest also and she will want to make love to you. simple.
2006-10-12 06:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by julie g 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋