can i luv him and at the sametime be afraid of loseing him.
2006-10-11 23:02:40 · 13 answers · asked by badgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fear of losing ..jus becoz you lov him....
you can never be able to get over your fear .....untill you share this fear with him....
talk it out gurl....
be bold with it
2006-10-11 23:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by self_stimulation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i've been there i loved him so much but was really afraid i lose him cause he is my best friend also we r together 3 years now & he knows that im still scared of loseing him but we always talk things through which helps we have had r fights also but not big ones just little ones. Im scared of loseing him cause ill lose a best friend also. hope this helps and its normal feeling i believe you can be even married and still be scared of loseing him.
2006-10-11 23:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by bornmadchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I think we all have a little bit of that if we truly love somebody, because it isn't your love, but the depth of his love for you which could cause you to lose him.
2006-10-11 23:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of couse you can! but thats something you will need to work on to really appreciate the relationship. if you feel comfortable with yourself then you shouldn't have to worry about what he thinks because he should love you for who you are not what he wants you to be
2006-10-11 23:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats absolutly normal! when u love someone u wish to spend ur life with him and ur always gonna b afraid to loose him
2006-10-11 23:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by green_n6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very possible....but what i think is your not getting as much as your giving in that relationship for you to feel that way.
2006-10-11 23:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are afraid to lose him because you love him and are insecure. You should trust your partner more, and have more self-confidence and self-respect.
2006-10-11 23:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal for anyone to feel afraid of losing what he loves .. but it is bettr for one to feel love and to live in love ..leaving fears behind ..
love can make us overcome any of them ..
then , sure you can love him .. but I hope you won't be afraid anymore of losing him ...
2006-10-11 23:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-11 23:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Excellent E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always be a little afraid...it keeps you on your toes
2006-10-11 23:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by bill a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋