2006-10-11 22:24:58 · 25 answers · asked by comboy100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i have one friend of mine who has adopted a girl after a lot of refusion from the family because many a times the grand parents do not accept this other blood to enter the family.
but trust me after thy adopted this small one year old girl from gujarat (india) & they have been blessed ever since then.
1. the father & mother got a new job; with double salary.
2. they could not afford a trip to india even once; but ever since they adopted this girl they have been travelling abroad as well.
trust me god will shower a lot of blessings on you if you adopt a kid!!!!!!!
please go ahead and adopt a kid......it will be very unfair on your part to mistreat your wife cause she is the one whom you should love & respect the most.
so please do not harm or ignore your wife cause you are commited to her in good & bad times of life cause you are married to her.
2006-10-12 01:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by ashwini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on why she can't have children. If she can't carry a baby, then adopt. Overseas adoptions are huge. You can adopt a little girl from Asian countries for about $20,000 these days. Or go to Eastern Europe and get a child for about $10,000. No, these babies are not sold. This is the expense of the legal fees in both countries to make sure the adoption is legal.
However, if she is like me and just can't get pregnant "the old fashioned way", then call your local fertility clinic and ask about invetro fertilization (test tube babies). This cost is around $20,000 for all the medical procedures. Or you can buy eggs and have your sperm fertilize them. There are many options. Talk to her doctor about what is possible for you.
Don't forget, there are always foster children who need homes right here in the good ole USofA. Not to mention, many older children who are adoptable but no one wants them because they are not infants. Contact your local Human Services office for information about that one.
2006-10-12 05:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
" For better - For Worse" These topics should have been discussed before the wedding. Give your marriage some time- then maybe adopt? IVF? But love, adore & cherish your wife, it's extremely hard for women to deal with thye fact they cannot give their partner a child, so be understanding to how she may be feeling as well.Best of luck.
2006-10-12 10:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by wolfgang n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for other alternative, adoption could always be a solution there are many children in the world that need loving parents and a good home! this is not the end of the world just a bump in the road
2006-10-12 06:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Chantelle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of different adoption agencies that you can consult. As far as adopting goes I would recommend getting a baby, and a child that is the same race as you. It's nothing racist, but it can help to reduce emotional problems later. Give your wife plenty of support. She probably feels badly enough so give her a lot of encouragement.
2006-10-12 07:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by keys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her by praying, going to the hospital for check-ups or just adopt and continue to love your wife. Is having children the sole reason of marriage? It shouldn't be that way'. It id God who gives us children. have you checked that in fact you just could be the cause and not the other way around?
2006-10-12 06:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stand by them and support them. That is one of the hardest things to deal with. There are many options to consider such as adoption, or being a foster parent for someone who really needs love.
2006-10-12 07:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Melanie F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i will believe God, is true is not easy. I want to assure you that there is nothing that is impossible for God to handle. is a Marvelous God. He did it to so many Couples, that medical report indicates that they can't conceive. But God who controls the heart of a king and who never fail baffled so many Families. What He need is your Faith and committement, and He will change every circumstance. Thank you
2006-10-12 06:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by logirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stop loving her she was scared to tell you incase you would of broke it up with her i think she will need some love and attention let her know that you love her there are other ways having children like adoption i know it wont be your own but it better not having any children at all.
2006-10-12 06:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show compassion and love for her, and look at the alternatives available. Lots of people never have kids, and still have happy and very fulfilled relationships, you have more freedom to travel and enjoy things that would be harder to do with a family.
2006-10-12 05:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋