use the word 'love' so lightly?Some people use it for anything and everything!
Like for instance, this girl likes this guy she has never spoken to, but she claims to love him so much and can't live without him, etc.Love is not just a word you say for everything you feel.
People mistake a crush or flirting with real love. Please explain to me, why do you do this?Please don't tell me it's because you really love the person, unless you are married or have a serious long term relationship.
2006-10-11 22:16:21 · 11 answers · asked by Jade22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I mean why do people say they love another person or mutilple other partners they hardly know or dont actaully like so much?
Love is suppoes to be something special, not something you just say, because its amusing or fun or on Valentine's day!!!Come on guys?
2006-10-11 22:22:19 · update #1
You are right about this my friend.One can't fall in love with someone by just looking at his physical appearance.Love is a feeling that develops over a period of time. You love someone when you know that person really well for a long time.
Most people tend to use the word love for mere physical attraction which is wrong.I guess this is because they just don't know what the real love is and frankly not many people get to experience the true love.
2006-10-11 22:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is getting a boring word. It doesn't express your feelings. And Valentine's Day is loving everyone which makes people gay. When a person wants to have sex with somebody that is love. Unless they are drunk.
I've never made a mistake by flirting with a girl. the only thing it's caused me is "love." Plz rate mine best answer.
2006-10-12 05:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, i agree totally with that statement, little kids are running around acting like adults in "serious relationships" claiming their love for their "partner" - grow up chops. I only use the word to the people i actually do love like my family or my little spider and ducklings and most of all the Girl that asked this Question.
I love you Jade21. Mwah. Mwah.
2006-10-12 06:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Brad24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're right ... But its Human nature to fall for such emotional traps
Attraction creates a lot of chemical changes and we most of the time confuse it to Love... But its natural...
I really liked it when you said true love is special...
You know what ... True Love can only be found in GOD ... The Almighty is the only one who can understand you completely and adjust to all your needs ... Finding solace in him is all what life is all about ...
Other than this .. most other "forms" of love are short lived and dont make it to the end ...
Its a pity .. but thats Life...
Anyways .. I really liked your idea of love and life ... Hope I can have a friend like you to speak to ..
2006-10-12 05:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Explorer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple - because the word love is so broad. I love my work doesn't certainly mean the same with I love my spose dearly. Love is the most abused word in the English dictionary.
2006-10-12 05:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by ren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno that u have love and lost that's y u r asking this .if not then my answer will be it is an attraction,it happens without giving any signal.but i should remind u that 1 day u wil also be in luv.
plz reply me
2006-10-12 05:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loll. i was in love but i wont be in love again!!when i ll get married i ll find a person who has common with me.we will do the same things and love comes after all this!!!
2006-10-12 05:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 05:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
because love and affection are not very well understood and complex emotions, and because everybody is different?
2006-10-12 05:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their idea of love.
2006-10-12 05:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋