i found out that he's been taking other girls for dinner, we do that rarely, and flirting with girls @ the office.
2006-10-11 22:08:42 · 21 answers · asked by nicky.sa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*Sigh* I am sorry that you are going through this. I just found out my BF gave out his number to a girl to fullfill his fantasy....on myspace. I confronted him about it
after I investigated it. Find out what is really going on and investigate!!! This is the only way you will know if it is only dinner or if something else is going on after dinner!!! Sometimes when our "inner voice" tells us theres something wrong we ignore it. I promise you if you feel there is something going on, most of the time you are right! Find out the truth for yourself so you won't have to worry and wonder anymore...give yourself some peace. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-11 22:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club. We've got jackets.
But no, seriously, you need to confront him. Does he know you know? If not drop hints about these other girls. Talk to these girls and find out if he really is flirting with them or just being friendly. Or get into the conversation casully about other women. Just approtch it easily. Not out there in the open.
Or theres always the revenge choice. Start flirting with a guy in front of him or in earshot or sight. Then claim you were being friendly. Hehehehe. *Looks around mischevously*
Good luck with that. =)
2006-10-11 22:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by microwavesafemonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut it off and call yourself bobbitt!! Just kidding- let me kick his butt! I am so sorry- I know it hurts like hell- been through that- he will continue his escapades- rarely does a leopard change his spots- dump him- and don't give him the time of day-grieve, cry and punch your pillow- write down the qualities you want in a real man- and go for that- later- after you have healed- take care-D
2006-10-11 22:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him girl! you don't need to be with him any more. Though it is very disappointing and hurts when you found some one in this situation while you care a lot about him. But you have to face it. He may try to convince you that he didn't do it. You have to tell him firmly that you have ended with him.
2006-10-11 22:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your boyfriend is blatantly cheating on you, it is somewhat
silly of you to still cling on to the relationship. Are you hoping that
he would change his cheating way? I think you will feel worse off
if you wait longer. Be resolute, just dump him and move on.
2006-10-11 23:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated on me to. The best thing is to just get out of the relationship. Revenge is no opion. It is only a bad idea and you will regret it later. Because he really doesn't care about your revenge. He only cares about one thing sex and geuss what weather or not it is you or another he is going to get it.
2006-10-11 22:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jason L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girls. STOP ASKING THIS. Every boy cheats on girls! You just have to be the best girl and win the boy! Or find out who he's cheating with and think of something crazy to get her!
2006-10-11 22:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm...If you and he are in an exclusive relationship then obviously he's wrong. I'd bail out the back door and wait for the right guy after I beat him down....No seriously, that's gotta hurt and I would leave him. You deserve better.
2006-10-11 22:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by abra_got_personality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spy maybe:))
Talk to him and if he acts mature, and explain what's that all about, maybe you'll reconsider.And remember that it takes two for tango.Something is wrong with the relationship if one of the partners is cheating.
2006-10-11 22:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by bilezlatko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-11 22:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋