he takes me out sometimes pays for my things and everything and he is great....and i love him so much and he loves me....well he works alot...and he goes to college and still finds time for me... but its at nite at like 9 and he is so tired from workin and everything he goes to sleep we dont have sex a whole lot but it could be alot better...we only do it when he wants to cause i don know how to tell him i want to so...but he tells me he isnt sure if he wants a long term reltionship or not right now again...cause of hes past one... and he told me this b4 we started datin so were talkin about it and i told him why doesnt he and he said b/c of hes last one and i told him he couldnt base hes last reltionship on this one and he told me he would try to do better....so great.but right now i feel like i'm not gettin the attention i need from him and i feel like he dosnt love me i asked him if he wasnt interested in me anymore and he said yea he is i dont know if he is how could i really tell?
2006-10-11 21:55:30 · 5 answers · asked by hesgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww.. i dont think you have got anything to worry about.... like you said, he is a busy man working and going to college and yet he still has time for you... hes a gentleman...
I can understand that you feel that there is no commitment because he said that he doesnt feel ready for a long term relationship, but you shouldnt worry about it, hes just taking his time and not rushing into anything too fast... which is good!!! he loves you and he wants to make it work between you both, believe me he is doing the right thing because of his past and wants to be happier with you!
2006-10-12 02:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the first thing is sex is no option for a man. He always wants to have sex. So just start doing things to him if you are wanting to have sex. The other thing is if you think he doesn't love you than talk to him about it. Beecause talking is a big thing in a relationship. Plus you've only dated for two months. Thats not enough time to think anyone loves anyone no matter how old you are. So, just talk to him about your problem. If he doesn't than tell him what you think.
2006-10-11 22:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend the way you sense. My guy merely broke up with me asserting he did no longer desire a severe courting perfect now. The snarled area is that the continuously advised me even the nighttime earlier he broke up with me how plenty he became in love with me and that i'm the final lady he's ever met and he needs to spend something of his existence with me, that i'm so honest, real and worrying and that he thank you god time-honored that I walked into his existence. lady he's no longer waiting for a courting and you may merely flow on earlier he breaks your coronary heart. Even after he broke up with me he advised me that he nevertheless enjoyed me and he continuously will and that i did no longer something incorrect, he merely did no longer desire a courting perfect now. He advised me we merely could desire to flow our separate techniques. do no longer enable your self be tortured with concepts like i'm doing to myself. Get out of the courting on an analogous time because it incredibly is nevertheless new. It won't harm as plenty.
2016-12-13 06:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-11 21:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ding too long ....boring
2006-10-11 21:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋