im 19 and been with my boyfriend since i was 16. i love him and feel like i wanna be with him forever, but have i still got more to discover about life?
2006-10-11 21:51:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you still have lots to discover about life, but that doesn't mean you two can't be together. If you have found the person you feel you love and will love for life, then stick with him. Don't break up or leave him just because you are young. You can hold off on marriage until you've done all the things you feel like doing before you get married. Then you two can settle down and start your lives together.
2006-10-11 21:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you still have plenty of time to love. You think your in love with this guy but, you will only move on. Trust me! I am 25 years old and feel in love to early and now I have three kids and I am divorced. I've been through more things than most people my age will ever go through. Just cause you love someone doesn't mean they love you the same. The best advise I could give you is that take it slow and be young while you can cause you will get older before you know it and then you can start to act like an adult. You don't want to begin to early because you will regret it later. JUST HAVE FUN FOR NOW.
2006-10-12 05:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jason L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're too young, if you truly feel that he's the right man for you. However, if you feel that there may be someone out there better suited for you... then there may well be. I know people who were high school sweethearts and are happily married, but I also know high school sweethearts who ended up divorced. Just because you've been together for 3 years and are legally adults, doesn't mean you should marry right away. Give yourselves a few more years to grow and mature... then if you are still together, then you are meant to be but it's your call. Follow your heart. Good luck in whatever you decide!
2006-10-12 04:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you still have a lot of things to discover, you're still young. Enjoy your life and discover a lot of things in life... there are still a lot of things and a good opportunities for you, grab all the opportunities when it comes to you so when the right time comes and you really want to be with your boyfriend go and go to the second stage of your life... Good luck
2006-10-12 05:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not young for love but you are young for a serious realtionship sweetie. you are right you still have things to discover. let me tell you my story, I loved my boyfriend when I was 17 and he was 24, our realtionship last more than 4 years at the end his mom choosed from him a bride, arranged marrieg, he left me to get married. See what I'm trying to tell you that we are young see what happened to me when I got involved young in a serious realtionship at this age, I end up now 22 alone, no one to love. So love but don't get involve seriously, discover the life and meet guys as much as you can and you will see how your thoughts will change. Good Luck girl.
2006-10-12 05:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is the regular grind after highschool== and graduation from college= where you get a job= go to work and come home-so in the mean time- highschool should be fun- and a learning experience =seeing the sights- and finding out what you want to do w your life- if you want to be somones wife and have kids and be a domestic goddess that is fine-but you may want to wait a few more years- and what does he want??? Guys usually take longer to mature- he needs and education and a skill- take care- D
2006-10-12 05:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are correct! you still have a lot to learn about life. that was very matured of you to realize that. 19 is already an ok age for a relationship. you are not too young for it. it's would be nice to have someone with you as you face the trials in life and become a better person.
2006-10-12 05:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emilou222, you are not too young. However, you still got more to discover about life. reason you can only know the actual love after getting married.
2006-10-12 05:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by zily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
u love him
life is filled with plenty of surprises
u can kno more guys, get to kno ther people boys and loads like that
u need to kno more about it
am much very much younger than u
and i have a bf too and we've been together for 2 years now
its relly work cool
it doesn't mean i don't lok at other gys and he just don't look at other girls but its love the foundation
i have many other guy friends
and u shud be more open to boys thus u'll not feel so
2006-10-12 05:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be understanding with each other and honest. Try to take the relationship as far as you can. You can discover everything together if it was meant to be. Just don't let anyone or anything stand in the way of your dreams.
2006-10-12 04:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋