okay well he told me he loves me and i finally said it back after a lil while okay and i'm comfortable around him and everything but i dont see him very much only at nite at like 9 or 10 and when he gets here is goes to sleep and barely on weekends he works so much and he goes to college i'm so not happy unless i'm wit him but if i'm not then i'm not happy.... i dont know wat to do..... our sex life has been gettin less we dont do it as much.... only when he wants cause i dont know how to tell him so....and he tells me he isnt sure if he wants a long term reltionship wit someone right now b/c of hes past... understandable.... but how do i know if he really loves me and isnt liein to me..... wat should i do
2006-10-11 21:17:47 · 14 answers · asked by hesgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't pressure the guy or he will run a mile.. he's being honest with you, he's got so much going on in his life just now the last thing he needs is a nagging gf. He has a right to live his life,to set up his future , he's still finding time for you and he's not using you for sex other wise he wouldn't be staying over and just sleeping.. so just go with the flow, and stop being so clingy, find your own interests, and make the most of the time you do have with him. You can't rely on another peron to make you happy.
2006-10-11 21:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My guy just broke up with me saying he didn't want a serious relationship right now. The messed up part is that the always told me even the night before he broke up with me how much he was in love with me and I'm the best girl he's ever met and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, that I'm so honest, genuine and caring and that he thanks god everyday that I walked into his life. Girl he's not ready for a relationship and you should just move on before he breaks your heart. Even after he broke up with me he told me that he still loved me and he always will and that I did nothing wrong, he just didn't want a relationship right now. He told me we just need to go our separate ways. Don't let yourself be tortured with thoughts like I am doing to myself. Get out of the relationship while it's still new. It won't hurt as much.
2006-10-11 21:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you when he says he doesnt want a long term relationship he's giving you a hint hint that means he doesnt want a serious commitment. And when a man tells you that or even hints at it take his word for it because nine times out of ten he means it and you are not going to change his mind otherwise. Just because a guys tells you he loves you doesnt mean anything i can tell you that i love you but do i mean it? just see where your relationship takes you but i would be looking for another boyfriend in the mean time.
2006-10-11 21:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by *~*~*BROWN 3Y3S*~*~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl get out now! the bit with no long term because of his past bit...its a crock hate to say it but if ur sex is lackinng after only 2 months and hes tired all the time beleive me girl its not work or school its someone else not saying this to hurt ur feelings saying this from experience...trust me...been there done that...2 months ur sex life should still be dynomite...
2006-10-11 21:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlady38237 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they can throw the L word around and he is not serious when he told you he loved and then says he does not want to get serious- Love is serious- you sound like a convenience to him= sex when he wants it and sleep-you need to get a life of your own and not be holding your breath for him= D
2006-10-11 21:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you that he loves you right but doesnt want a long term relationship and he only wants to do it when he wants to....Girlfriend all I can tell you is just be careful love and not wanting long term relationship doesnt goes together.You deserve someone whom notice you spoils you and loves you for who you are!
2006-10-11 21:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by badgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get a strong sense that he does not love you and this relationship will not go anywhere good. I think you should end it asap before it gets any worse.
2006-10-11 21:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a relation is walking to an end there is nothing you can do change its corse and i think yours is walking to an end , so dont do anything just sit back and watch what happens
2006-10-11 21:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Roy Keen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-11 21:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
He's sick of you after two months? I'd keep you around for at least three
2006-10-11 21:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋