I really like this guy. We talked for almost 5 hours yesterday. I'm talking to him now and it seems like there's nothing left to talk about. I would like to engage in a more meaningful conversation without being too serious or annoying..
2006-10-11 21:15:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A man's mouth is like a clam shut tight. Pretty tough to pry open. Try being his friend for some time before asking him to share his problems. A man only shares his feelings and problems with his closest friends. After a few nights of good casual chats, the guy will be all ready to open up more to you.
Avoid probing questions the first few times you guys chat.
2006-10-11 21:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by caterpillar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY 5 hours mmm
seriously dont force a conversation --- when someone says what do you want to talk about you dry up
so just enjoy each others company and the talk will flow
2006-10-12 04:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, you just have to wait till he's ready or you will come off as annoying no matter how much your trying not to be. All you can tell him is .. If you ever want to talk about anything I'll always listen.
2006-10-12 04:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talked to him for 5 hours> Good grief! I hope you were like out on a date...surely not on the phone! Go somewhere...the more you are together the more you will be able to ask...it's that simple.
2006-10-12 04:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Godsent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More meaningful would be more serious- don't push or be needy- End the conversation if you are done talking or if he is- don't bug him away- there will be another day! take care D
2006-10-12 04:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do it casually get him to start the conversation..ask how does he feel about a serious relationship..or what is he looking for in a girlfriend....stuff like that then when he starts getting in depth u can go from there...
2006-10-12 04:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlady38237 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever consider that maybe he just doesn't have that much in the line of feelings? Not everyone has complicated emotions, some folks just don't have that much to relate in that department.
2006-10-12 04:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by michinoku2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he what he thinks the meaning of life is..
or what his main goal in life is or where he plans to be in 5 yrs 10 yrs 30 yrs.. about his family.. ask him the scariest thing thats ever happened to him the funniest thing the saddest thing get my drift??
2006-10-12 04:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time...spread out your relationship over days
It usually takes me a while before I realize how I feel about a girl, so give him some time to get to know you and to let it sink-in or settle when he's not with you or talking to you.
2006-10-12 04:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by entranced82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five hours of talking and you want more? You are annoying
2006-10-12 04:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋