why does she suspect me?

Question

My wife always suspects me as have an affair. I am really innocent and i don’t have such an affair. So how can solve this problem?

Answer 1

Just assure her that you are not cheating. Try to make extra time for her. If you normally run errands after work or on weekends invite her to go along so she can see what you are doing when you are not together.

Answer 2

Ok, one of three things. One could be she is the one having the affair. Two, she is insecure because someone has cheated on her in the past. Three, you have given her a reason to think this. The only way to help with the problem is to give into her insecurities and let her know where you are all the time. Answer the phone every time she calls, don't make her wonder where you are or what you are doing. Be more affectionate to her and just let her know how much you love her. If she is the one cheating then there is nothing you can do, except find out the truth. Good luck with everything.

Answer 3

Oooh. If you have ever had an affair she will always be suspicious unless you get outside help;and a lot of kissing "A" from you. Is she young? Immaturity. Is she just a jealous person? Insecurity. This is her problem not so much yours. She needs to look inside herself and learn why she is this way.

Answer 4

There are two kind of people in this world. One category of people feel their partner is faithful, unless proved otherwise. The other category goes with the assumption that the partner is not faithful, unless proved other.

Talk to your good lady more openly and more frequently. Share with her what you did when you were away from her. A good gift or an outing on an odd occasion should help to tide over the situation in time to come.

Answer 5

FIND OUT WHO SHE'S HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH!!!! There is LOTS of truth to the old saying "the guilty dog barks first." You better check up on HER...or get her a shrink for her insecurities. Sounds like she is obsessed....unless you got a PHD...good luck dude. (sorry I don't feel like being thoughtful with my answers today...just honest)

Answer 6

Perhaps because she is having an affair and she is transfering her guilt to you. This is quite common. One partner cheats and justifies it by assuming that the other partner is cheating also even though they are not.

Answer 7

maybe your a freindly person and come off like your flirting with people. Thats what i thought my bf was doing , but just figured he's just friendly with everyone and people take it the wrong way.. i dunno.. maybe you don;t pay her enough attention.. let her know where u are what your doing,, just to reassure her, not like your under the thumb or anything.. maybe she's been hurt before and is scared of it happening again, reassureance and love and understanding is all she needs,

Answer 8

Primarily it would be her nature to suspect.

The love u give her may be less

U may not be appreciating her when she deserves it.

May be u may be talking too much with your (female) collegue.

u take an inventory very v ery strictly about what I have stated, ur answer will be there. u r ur judge be strict with your self
NO SELF PITY.

Answer 9

if shes always acusing u ..then she has some insecurity about herself or shes done something she feels guilty about...if ur really innocent then u shouldnt worry..sit her down and talk to her about ask her whatss going on and y does she think that way...

Answer 10

Tell that that how much you suspect me so much you love her