i broke up with my bf 3 moths ago. but until now i still love him and cant forget him. i asked God to give me some signs if we're really for each other. and everday i used to see those signs. does it mean, he's the man for me? but not yet the right time?do signs really exist?
2006-10-11 20:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you see the babies you gonna have with him? What kind of husband and father will he be? That should answer your question.
2006-10-11 20:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Nemrac666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-18 08:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are just making yourself believe that You are looking out for "signs." Here's a sign, STOP! If you're ex hasnt said anything to you about getting back together, then you should just GO and move on with your life.
2006-10-11 20:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok ask urself y did u dump him in the first place...and were they really signs or r u trying to convince urself that u want him back because u miss him....u may still love him but time heals all wounds girl if u broke up with him because u werent happy..then let him go and move on because men never change once they get u back they know they have u and start acting the same way they did before u left... so as far as destiny i dont know about that word...god has a plan for you this may not be the one u r suppose to be with...especially if he gave u a way out of the relationship....
2006-10-11 21:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlady38237 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still think of him because you haven't given yourself the chance to let go. i believe there are multiple people out there that we will love in our lifetime. i'm not religious, but my friend is, and she's told me a few times before, God will take care of us. God wanted you two to be together, and God wanted you two to break up for a good reason. Yes, it hurts, a lot. But we learn from each of our relationships, and through that journey, we learn to love the next person better. So forget about your ex, heal, and start searching for you next.
2006-10-11 21:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Take Me Alive!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see the signs anymore God must have changed his mind about your destiny. Do as he says and leave this man alone.
2006-10-11 21:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i firmly believe that God gives us signs. but we have free will so it's not like Gods gonna make you go out with the guy or hang a sign over his head saying "hey,this is the guy for you." so trust your heart and the signs and try to get your man back. best of luck
2006-10-11 21:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by *~*~*BROWN 3Y3S*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not answer you question personaly ie:(knowing you or your ex) I would however like to share somethings with you I know from my own life I have discovered. It does not matter if its the one you want to live with for the rest of your life. It does not matter if you want to have children together. It does not matter if you see signs or if you dont. What matters the most? Do you love yourself? #1 Then if you do you can love others. #2 Then you can make up the choice for yourself If you really love someone else. #3 Then if you do is it what you want for now or still uncertain. If so then look in to your self and see if your mature enough for this, or secure enough for this. I say this as life is as follows: You are the only person in your life that will never lie to you or cheat you. People on a whole are selfish despots who want what they want when they want it. I think what ever someone give me is alot more then what I already had. We as a whole think and take things for granted. If you where ment to be together with someone IT will happen. If YOU love someone. Then try not to lie or cheat. To do that is to risk loosing trust. With out trust there can be no relationship as there will always be doubt. Some of us feel we need someone. Someone to be with us even if it is to be used by them. I am one of the many who feel drawn to the ones who need, love or sex or help. I feel like a moth to a flame at times. I do this not out of need for them to love me. I do this as I love everyone one. There is no shame in loving anyone and you dont have to be with someone to love them. There is no recite in life. only decite. I wish you the best in all you do. If you want to be loved then love back. Dont listen to others tell you what to do as most will tell you what they want you to do. Think Love Learn and be Loved back. some of this is prose from someone I knew.
2006-10-11 21:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Canadian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that is not true in my relationship. If that is my destiny, I am screwed.
2006-10-11 20:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is the one if you always think of him you plan a future with him if you see the rest of your life with him you wonder if he is ok or what he is doing right now
2006-10-11 21:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by GINA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋