2006-10-11 20:52:16 · 18 answers · asked by cheekimadam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's like most guys, unless you tell him that you're bored or not enjoying it very much, he has NO idea. Trust me, if you tell him sex with him isn't quite doing it for you, he'll be in your face until he get's it right. (Word it carefully so as not to offend the delicate male ego!)
But you have to be willing to be honest and tell him your crazy fantasy, or else tell him what too many guys still don't know: most women don't 'finish' when the only thing on the menu is vag. intercourse.
Sorry to sound like a sex ed teacher, but you'd be surprised at what some guys assume about women and sex. Just tell him you would love it if he would (fill in the blank). If he doesn't practically overwhelm you with renewed effort, then chuck him!
2006-10-11 20:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you think spicing it up is.
Role play?
Costumes?
Toys?
Other people?
and many others.....
As I don't know I would suggest going slowly at first, introducing things little by little.
At the end of the day he may not be into it, so you may have to face the question: Great Sex the way you want it or him?
2006-10-12 02:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by advent m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf doesn't think there's a problem? Well why don't you let him know there is one... if not in words, through your actions and I don't mean by denying him the nectar of life.... but rather making him work for it. TAKE THE INITIATIVE.... make him horny and make him work to make you horny too.... go all out for it... lingerie, toys, aphrodisiacs, kinky stuff.... try everything you have to........ of course for this to work, you should take care not scare off your bf. Take one step at a time, and lead him along. You don't need to sit around waiting for him to take the first step. And if there's no thunder between the bedsheets even after done it all, well there's nothing to do but leave him..... but not until you've made an effort. It's not mission impossible you know! Cheers to you girl. Go for it!!!
2006-10-11 23:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mabopsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest way is Lingerie... lingerie is always the best thing to spice up the sex in the bedroom. If your BF doesnt suspect that there is a problem then he must not have his eyes open. If the sex is boring try bringing in toys also. Go to your local porn store and pick up some fun oils or flavored condoms... those are always fun. Try more foreplay on both your part and his. If his stamina is the problem get him a penis ring,(maybe with a french tickler) that helps prolong the ejaculation and is also fun to play with. Also try adding black lights or flourescent bulbs to the lighting in the room. If all that doesnt work try going out in public and having sex somewhere riskay like a dressing room... a public park in the dark night under the lights on the play ground. THATS FUN!!
2006-10-11 21:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by Matt J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-13 10:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its Typical most men don't see problems until its too late. If he is not interested in spicying you sex life up, Get a new boyfriend.
Sounds to me as if he gets want he wants and is happy with that. Stop giving him the good things.. and see if he still thinks there is a problem.
good luck
2006-10-11 20:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol just tell him you want to try some stuff that you have heard about and are interested in experimenting with. Then just do your research for new sex positions, games and anything else you can think of. There is this great book its called 203 ways to drive a man wild in bed! Its a really good book.
Good Luck
2006-10-11 20:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to see the female wanting to spice things up. I'm sure you being you would be enough.
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2016-04-21 09:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just off the top of my head...I'd like if my gf was pouty if she really wanted some...or...if we were just sitting around or doing whatever, if she went all physical and in-my-face trying to get my attention and being feminine
a lot of girls are stimulated by situations, atmospheres, environments, etc...so maybe create a romantic setting and go from there?...romance novels give good inspiration, don't they?...I wouldn't know
2006-10-11 21:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by entranced82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋